Exception Finding: When Is the Problem Already Less Severe?
Identify times when the problem was absent or less severe — these are evidence that solutions already exist.
Why it works
Exceptions contradict the implicit assumption that "the problem is always here and I have no control over it." By surfacing exceptions, SFBT reveals that the client already has, in some contexts, the resources or behaviors that would constitute a solution. This shifts attribution: the change required is not to install something new from scratch, but to notice and amplify what is already working under certain conditions. Finding the conditions of exceptions is finding the conditions of the solution.
How to do it
- Ask: "When is the problem a little less bad? Or even absent, even briefly?"
- When an exception is named, slow down and explore it fully: "What were you doing differently? Who was around? What was different about that time?"
- Ask what the person did to make that exception happen (even if they say "nothing" — press gently).
- Ask: "What would it take to make that happen a bit more often?"
- Collect multiple exceptions and look for patterns in the conditions.
Evidence
Exception-finding is a central SFBT technique with strong clinical support. SFBT meta-analyses (including Gingerich & Eisengart, 2000; Kim, 2008) show positive effects for behavioral outcomes, though exceptions as an isolated technique have not been separately trialed. Gingerich & Eisengart’s (2000) systematic review of controlled outcome studies found the majority reported positive results and identified a focus on exceptions and existing client resources as a defining feature of the well-controlled trials. (observational)
Evidence is at the SFBT package level; exception-finding as an isolated intervention has not been tested separately.
Sources
- Kim (2008), "Examining the Effectiveness of Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: A Meta-Analysis", Research on Social Work Practice
- Gingerich, W. J., & Eisengart, S. (2000). Solution-focused brief therapy: A review of the outcome research. Family Process, 39(4), 477-498.
Common mistake
Accepting "there are no exceptions" without gently persisting — clients often report no exceptions when they mean no FULL resolution, not no partial improvement. Ask about partial, brief, or unexpected exceptions.
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- Scaling Questions
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- Coping Questions
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- Complimenting Strengths Throughout the Session
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- The Formula First-Session Task and Between-Session Noticing
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