Coaching practices for Apophatic Prayer

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • All my pictures of God
  • My prayer has gone completely dry
  • When I try to pray it turns into thinking about God
  • I jumped straight into the deepest, most advanced form of contemplative prayer because it sounded profound, and now I just sit there feeling lost and like nothing is happening
  • When I pray I fall back on memorized, safe phrases that don’t touch what’s really in me

Practices that may help

  1. Apophatic prayer: releasing images of God
    Let go of all mental images and concepts of God to rest in what transcends concepts.
    Contemplative Prayer: The Inner Journey
  2. Bearing the darkness of not-knowing
    Tolerate the felt absence of light, experience, or consolation during the practice.
    The Cloud of Unknowing: Contemplation Beyond Concepts
  3. The naked intent: directing love without images
    Reach toward God with a bare, loving intention stripped of all thought and image.
    The Cloud of Unknowing: Contemplation Beyond Concepts
  4. Understanding who this practice is for
    Recognize that the Cloud’s method is not for beginners — it requires prior formation.
    The Cloud of Unknowing: Contemplation Beyond Concepts
  5. Oratio: praying in response to what arose
    Let what the text touched in you become a prayer — honest, spontaneous, personal.
    Lectio Divina: Sacred Reading
  6. Pressing thoughts into the cloud of forgetting
    Put every thought — including holy ones — beneath you, pressing them out of awareness.
    The Cloud of Unknowing: Contemplation Beyond Concepts
  7. Contemplation opening to universal compassion
    Let interior transformation express outward as deeper care for others, not withdrawal from them.
    Contemplative Prayer: The Inner Journey
  8. Carrying contemplative consent into daily activity
    Let the quality of openness and consent from the sit carry into how you move through the day.
    Centering Prayer: The Method of Thomas Keating
  9. Contemplatio: resting in wordless presence
    Release words and rest in simple, open presence — the fruit and culmination of the practice.
    Lectio Divina: Sacred Reading
  10. Choosing and using a sacred word
    Select one simple word as your symbol of consent to God’s presence and action within.
    Centering Prayer: The Method of Thomas Keating

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