Coaching practices for Awe and Well Being in a New Job

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I just took over a brand-new team and everyone’s being polite and looking to me for everything
  • I’m about to walk into a new job and a new neighborhood, and I’m already bracing for it to be awkward, rehearsing how they probably won’t take to me
  • I already know what I’m good at, but I only ever use those strengths in the same few familiar places
  • I’m so trapped in my own head, looping on the same small worries, that even when I’m outside I barely see anything
  • I could list ten things that went wrong at work today without blinking but I’d struggle to name one that went right

Practices that may help

  1. Awe and Well-Being, Made Practical
    Awe — the emotion triggered by encountering something vast that challenges your current mental frameworks — reliably reduces self-focused thinking, lowers inflammatory markers in some studies, increases prosocial behavior, and expands the perceived sense of time available. Dacher Keltner’s research shows awe is more accessible than people think and can be deliberately cultivated without waiting for once-in-a-decade peak experiences.
  2. Forming: provide clarity before connection
    In the first stage, a new team needs structure and purpose more than it needs team-building.
    Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
  3. Use the anticipation of interaction to create liking before meeting
    Knowing you will interact with someone in the future makes you evaluate them more positively before it happens.
    The Propinquity Effect (Leon Festinger)
  4. Use a signature strength in a new way each day for one week
    Apply one of your top character strengths to a context or relationship where you don’t normally use it.
    VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
  5. Design awe walks that amplify the psychological return of outdoor movement
    Walking with intentional attention to vast, novel, or beautiful elements generates awe — which compounds the mood benefits of movement.
    Nature and Movement, Made Practical
  6. Apply three good things to work contexts specifically
    Use the exercise to rewire what you notice about your work day — contribution, competence, and collaboration.
    Three Good Things: The Evidence-Based Gratitude Practice
  7. Write from a small-self perspective after awe
    After an awe experience, write briefly from the perspective of someone whose personal concerns feel appropriately small.
    Awe and Well-Being, Made Practical
  8. Seek out awe as a broadening and self-transcending emotion
    Awe expands perceived time, reduces self-focused thought, and increases prosocial behavior — and it can be deliberately accessed.
    Broaden-and-Build, Made Practical
  9. Invest in what research shows moves the set point
    Prioritize relationships, autonomy, and meaning — the three factors most reliably linked to lasting wellbeing gains.
    The Hedonic Treadmill, Made Practical
  10. Include a happiness question — not as an outcome goal but as a signal
    Add "Did I do my best to be happy today?" to the list — not as a target, but as a daily quality-of-life sensor.
    The Morning Questions

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