Coaching practices for Centering Prayer Duration

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • My silent prayer keeps drifting
  • I find a real stillness in my prayer time and then snap right back into the same reactive, defended person the moment I get up
  • I want to sit silently with God, but the second I try, my mind grabs onto a thought and runs
  • I love sitting with scripture and I love silent prayer, but I do them as two separate things and they feel a little disconnected
  • Since I started sitting in silence, old buried feelings and memories keep welling up during and after, and it unnerves me

Practices that may help

  1. Centering Prayer: The Method of Thomas Keating
    Centering Prayer is a contemporary Christian contemplative practice developed by Thomas Keating, William Meninger, and Basil Pennington in the 1970s, drawing on The Cloud of Unknowing and the Desert Father tradition. The method is simple: sit in silence for 20 minutes, use a sacred word as a gentle intention to consent to God’s presence, and release all thoughts as they arise. It is a devotional practice; some components parallel studied meditation mechanisms, but centering prayer as a whole has not been evaluated in controlled trials.
  2. Sitting for twenty minutes, twice daily
    Commit to 20 minutes, twice a day — the practice period Keating recommends for transformation to occur.
    Centering Prayer: The Method of Thomas Keating
  3. Carrying contemplative consent into daily activity
    Let the quality of openness and consent from the sit carry into how you move through the day.
    Centering Prayer: The Method of Thomas Keating
  4. Choosing and using a sacred word
    Select one simple word as your symbol of consent to God’s presence and action within.
    Centering Prayer: The Method of Thomas Keating
  5. Combining lectio divina with centering prayer
    Use a brief lectio as preparation that deepens the consent you bring to centering prayer.
    Centering Prayer: The Method of Thomas Keating
  6. Allowing the "divine therapy" — psychological healing through practice
    Expect that regular centering prayer surfaces buried emotional material, and allow it.
    Centering Prayer: The Method of Thomas Keating
  7. Releasing all thoughts without judgment
    Let every thought — pleasant or unpleasant, trivial or profound — pass without engaging it.
    Centering Prayer: The Method of Thomas Keating
  8. The mixed life: contemplation alongside action
    Practice the Cloud’s method within an active life — Keating and Merton both affirm it is possible.
    The Cloud of Unknowing: Contemplation Beyond Concepts
  9. Entering and sitting in silence
    Create interior and exterior silence — the necessary soil for contemplative prayer to grow.
    Contemplative Prayer: The Inner Journey
  10. Pressing thoughts into the cloud of forgetting
    Put every thought — including holy ones — beneath you, pressing them out of awareness.
    The Cloud of Unknowing: Contemplation Beyond Concepts

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