Coaching practices for Connecting Goals to Values

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• There’s a goal I keep flogging myself to pursue and it just won’t stick
• The moment a goal gets hard I lose all sense of why I’m even doing it
• Every time I set goals they end up being what I think I’m supposed to want
• I keep hitting the milestones I chase
• We’ve got nice-sounding values up on the wall and the website, but they do nothing in the room when a real hiring or judgment call is on the table

Practices that may help

1. Using your ranked values as a coaching north star
   Return to your ranked values list every time a goal, project, or decision feels off-track.
   Values Card Sort
2. Anchor each goal to a named, personal value
   Make the goal an expression of a specific value so it stays motivating when difficulty peaks.
   Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical
3. Excavate core values before writing goals
   Identify what you most fundamentally care about before deciding what you want — or goals will be other people’s.
   The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self
4. Separate values from goals
   Distinguish directions you live (values) from destinations you reach (goals).
   Values Clarification, Made Practical
5. Make core values operational, not decorative
   Use core values in hiring, recognition, and decision-making — not just on the website.
   The Rockefeller Habits: Scaling Up with Rhythm and Focus
6. Link every action to a named value
   Before you begin, name the value the action expresses — not just the goal it serves.
   Committed Action, Made Practical
7. Map your goal hierarchy
   Identify which goals serve which higher-order values so that path failures don’t threaten meaning.
   Hope Theory: Agency, Pathways, and Getting Unstuck
8. Values clarification
   Name the directions you want your life to move in, distinct from goals you can check off.
   Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Made Practical
9. Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical
   Values-based action in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) means choosing behaviors that are consistent with what matters most to you — your values — rather than behaviors driven by avoidance of pain or approval-seeking. ACT distinguishes values (directions, ongoing) from goals (destinations, finishable); the emphasis is on the quality of action in the present rather than outcome attainment. ACT has robust meta-analytic support; values-based action is identified as a core mechanism.
10. Review your goal hierarchy to ensure lower goals serve higher ones
    When daily tasks are disconnected from values, motivation mysteriously evaporates — close the hierarchy gap.
    Goal Systems Theory: How Goals Work Together (and Against Each Other)

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