Coaching practices for Core Values Prioritization

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• If you ask me what I value I’ll say family, health, honesty, growth
• I’ve got a short list of values but they’re all just sitting there as equals, and the second two of them collide in real life
• We’ve got nice-sounding values up on the wall and the website, but they do nothing in the room when a real hiring or judgment call is on the table
• If someone asked me what I actually care about, I’m not sure I could answer honestly
• I’m frozen on a decision where honoring one thing I care about means shortchanging another

Practices that may help

1. The forced-rank sort
   Write your top 20 candidate values on cards, then sort them ruthlessly until you have a ranked top five.
   Values Card Sort
2. Rank your top values
   Force a strict order among your finalists so conflicts resolve in advance.
   Values Clarification, Made Practical
3. Make core values operational, not decorative
   Use core values in hiring, recognition, and decision-making — not just on the website.
   The Rockefeller Habits: Scaling Up with Rhythm and Focus
4. Values Card Sort
   A values card sort is a structured exercise — originally developed in motivational interviewing — that forces you to rank competing values by choosing between them rather than claiming you hold all of them equally. The comparison process surfaces implicit priorities that self-report alone misses. Evidence for values-clarification as a lever for behavior change is observational to clinical; the specific card-sort format has good face validity but limited direct trial data.
5. Values clarification: what matters most to you?
   Identify 3–5 core values — not what you should value, but what actually matters when life is stripped back.
   Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical
6. Values Clarification, Made Practical
   Values clarification is the work of naming what matters most to you, sorting the genuine priorities from the inherited ones, and using them to guide real choices. The methods — card sorts, ranking, value-consistent action — draw heavily on values work in acceptance-and-commitment therapy (ACT), which has clinical support; living in line with your values correlates with wellbeing in observational research.
7. Resolving a decision with two competing values
   When two values both apply, use your ranked priority to resolve the tension rather than freeze.
   Values Card Sort
8. Map your values across the four life domains
   Write one core value statement for each domain — work, relationships, personal growth, leisure — before touching the bullseye.
   Values Bullseye, Made Practical
9. Circle your top 5 without negotiating
   From 25, choose exactly 5 — the ones you’d feel worst about not doing.
   Warren Buffett’s Two-List Strategy
10. Maintain at most three active priorities at one time
    More than three active priorities is the same as no priorities — attention cannot be shared four ways.
    Designing a Calm Company (Fried & Hansson)

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