Coaching practices for Curiosity About Emotions
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- Everything has gone flat and routine
- There’s this feeling sitting in me and I can feel it in my body, but I don’t really get what it’s about or what it wants from me, and I want to get curious about it instead of just analyzing myself.
- Something just set me off and I can feel it surging right now
- A feeling slams into me and I have no idea where it came from or why it’s this big
- I can feel the feeling and I’m not running from it, but I have no idea what it’s really about
Practices that may help
- Cultivate curiosity as a daily emotional practice
Curiosity is a broadening emotion that expands attentional scope and drives exploratory behavior — it can be deliberately triggered.
Broaden-and-Build, Made Practical - I — Investigate with gentle, curious attention
Bring kind curiosity to the emotion: Where is it in the body? What does it most need?
RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice - Observe the emotion without feeding it
When a strong emotion hits, watch it without adding the story that keeps it going.
The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical - Understand the function of the emotion
Every emotion evolved because it does something useful — learn what yours is trying to do.
DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical - RAIN — Investigate with kindness
Gently explore what the feeling is about and what it most needs — with curiosity, not interrogation.
Radical Acceptance, Made Practical - Get curious about the feeling, not critical
Ask "what is this emotion and what is it about?" instead of "why do I feel this way again?"
Emotional Granularity: Precision as a Regulation Skill - Locate the emotion in the body as well as naming it
After naming an emotion on the Feeling Wheel, find where it lives in the body.
The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary - Name what the emotion is doing in your body
Track the physical signs of the emotion as they move through — this alone reduces their intensity.
The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical - Notice and name mixed or contradictory emotions simultaneously
When something significant happens, look for two or more emotions that coexist — even contradictory ones.
The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary - Red hat: name the emotions without justifying them
Give feelings a legitimate place in the discussion — the red hat makes emotional data explicit so it stops running covertly.
Six Thinking Hats, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Emotion As Information
Every emotion evolved because it does something useful — learn what yours is trying to do.
Understand the function of the emotion
- Emotions As Information
Every emotion evolved because it does something useful — learn what yours is trying to do.
- Exploring Emotions
Bring kind curiosity to the emotion: Where is it in the body? What does it most need?
I — Investigate with gentle, curious attention
- Why Do I Feel All Emotions So Intensely
Drop the judgment about whether you should or shouldn’t feel a certain way — the emotion is already there.
Give yourself permission to feel
- Why Do I Feel Emotions So Intensely
Drop the judgment about whether you should or shouldn’t feel a certain way — the emotion is already there.
- Why Do I Feel Emotions So Intensely Autism
Every emotion evolved because it does something useful — learn what yours is trying to do.
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