Coaching practices for Decision Criteria

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’m weighing a dozen factors on the same choice I face over and over, and they all blur together
• I sit down to choose and realize I never decided what I actually want first, so whatever options get put in front of me end up defining "good" for me
• I’ll find something that genuinely fits everything I need, and instead of taking it I keep looking
• I can never feel done deciding
• The second either of us names a solution, the other instantly shoots it down with a counter

Practices that may help

1. Use "take the best": choose on your single most informative cue
   When choosing between options, identify the most diagnostic cue and use it — stop searching for more.
   Simple Heuristics: Gerd Gigerenzer’s Case for Fast and Frugal Thinking
2. Evaluate each option against your criteria before comparing options to each other
   Score options independently first — so the comparison set can’t retroactively redefine what good looks like.
   The Decoy Effect — How an Irrelevant Option Changes Your Choice
3. Set a “good enough” bar before you search
   Decide your criteria first, then take the first option that clears them.
   Satisficing vs. Maximizing: When “Good Enough” Wins
4. Adopt satisficing instead of maximizing
   Set a "good enough" threshold before you search, then stop when you hit it.
   Choice Overload, Made Practical
5. Define what success looks like together, before proposing solutions
   Agree on the criteria a good solution must meet before either side proposes anything.
   The Third Alternative, Made Practical
6. Simplify complex choices to prevent comparison fatigue from enabling decoys
   Too many options increase susceptibility to decoys — constrain the comparison set before evaluating.
   The Decoy Effect — How an Irrelevant Option Changes Your Choice
7. Define your disqualifiers in advance
   Before evaluating options, decide what would automatically rule one out.
   Inversion: Solve Problems Backward
8. Model synergy: ask "what would a solution have to look like to address both?"
   Use the agreed criteria as a design brief and generate solutions that meet all of them.
   The Third Alternative, Made Practical
9. Use the 10-year view to check values alignment
   Ask: is the 10-year version of this choice consistent with what I actually care about?
   The 10-10-10 Rule
10. Commit and stop re-evaluating
    Once you’ve chosen, close the door instead of reopening the comparison.
    Satisficing vs. Maximizing: When “Good Enough” Wins

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