Coaching practices for Getting Results the Agile Way Ags with My Partner

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• Every week I hit the same walls and learn nothing
• I get to the end of a packed day having ticked off a hundred little things and still can’t point to one that actually mattered
• I report that I missed it, we both nod, and then I go hit the exact same wall next week
• My goals are so vague that I can always tell myself I sort of did them
• Instead of just saying what I need, I drop hints and wait to see if they notice

Practices that may help

1. Getting Results the Agile Way (AGS), Made Practical
   J.D. Meier’s Agile Results (also called Agile Getting Started or AGS) is a time-management framework built on a simple rule: name three outcomes at the day, week, month, and year level, and focus your effort on completing them. The Monday Vision / Daily Outcomes / Friday Reflection rhythm is a practitioner structure grounded in goal-specificity and reflection research, not a formally studied protocol.
2. Run a Friday Reflection
   Each Friday, review what you accomplished, what you learned, and what you would do differently.
   Getting Results the Agile Way (AGS), Made Practical
3. Name three outcomes each day
   Before the day begins, write three concrete things you will accomplish — not tasks, but results.
   Getting Results the Agile Way (AGS), Made Practical
4. Coach each other, not just report
   Have your partner help problem-solve the obstacle, not only record the miss.
   Accountability Partners
5. Report against specific, verifiable commitments
   Tell your partner exactly what you will do, so "progress" can be confirmed, not fudged.
   Accountability Partners
6. State needs directly rather than testing for them
   Testing your partner for responsiveness is an attachment behavior that reliably produces the opposite of what you need.
   The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: Why Opposites Attract and Then Struggle
7. Make the third alternative tangible with a prototype or model
   Turn an abstract third-alternative idea into something both parties can react to together.
   The Third Alternative, Made Practical
8. Score your weekly execution
   Rate the percentage of planned actions you completed each week, and aim high.
   The 12 Week Year, Made Practical
9. Ask "How are we doing?" as a genuine question
   Invite both partners to rate and describe the overall relationship state this week.
   The Relationship Check-In: A Structured Practice for Staying Connected
10. Explicitly asking your partner to treat you as your ideal self
    Name one quality of your ideal self and ask your partner to treat you as if you already have it.
    The Michelangelo Phenomenon: How Partners Sculpt Each Other

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