Coaching practices for Helping 6 Year Old with Anxiety Disorder to Cope After My Visits End

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  • I keep asking the people around me "are you sure it’s fine?" over and over
  • I’ve got all these little rules that keep me okay
  • Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room
  • When I make myself face the scary scenario I end up still wound up and rattled afterward, and then I dread doing it again
  • I can only do certain things if a particular person comes with me

Practices that may help

  1. Fade reassurance-seeking
    Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  2. Drop the safety behaviors
    Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  3. Engage with the present moment
    Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  4. Combine worry exposure with relaxation skill
    After the exposure period, apply a relaxation practice to close each session with a deactivation phase.
    Worry Exposure, Made Practical
  5. Fade reliance on a support person
    Gradually enter feared situations with decreasing support from a person who has been a source of safety.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  6. Reframe from "preventing catastrophe" to "coping with discomfort"
    Shift the goal of entering feared situations from preventing disaster to practicing tolerance.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  7. Stay in the situation until anxiety drops
    Remain in the feared situation long enough for distress to fall — leaving early teaches the wrong lesson.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
  8. Gradually drop safety behaviors
    Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
  9. Eliminate safety behaviors
    Identify and drop the subtle actions that reduce anxiety but prevent learning you don’t need them.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
  10. Problem-solve together once the child is calm
    After the emotional storm passes, invite the child to find a solution with you.
    Emotion Coaching (John Gottman)

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