Coaching practices for How to Manage Separation Anxiety in Dogs
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- I’ve got all these little rules that keep me okay
- I keep asking the people around me "are you sure it’s fine?" over and over
- The instant it hits in a store or a meeting, the only thought is get out now
- I can get through the scary thing now, but only with my little crutches
- I can only handle the scary situation if I’ve got my little crutch
Practices that may help
- Drop the safety behaviors
Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Fade reassurance-seeking
Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Stay in the situation for the full arc
Leave only after the attack has peaked and begun to subside — not in the middle, no matter how strong the urge.
Panic Surfing - Eliminate safety behaviors
Identify and drop the subtle actions that reduce anxiety but prevent learning you don’t need them.
Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them - Gradually drop safety behaviors
Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Stay in the situation until anxiety drops
Remain in the feared situation long enough for distress to fall — leaving early teaches the wrong lesson.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Engage with the present moment
Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Prolonged exposure: stay until distress drops
Enter the feared situation and stay until anxiety peaks and then noticeably decreases on its own.
Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them - Fade reliance on a support person
Gradually enter feared situations with decreasing support from a person who has been a source of safety.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Run toward the feeling
Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
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Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
Drop the safety behaviors
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Fade reassurance-seeking
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Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
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