Coaching practices for How Do You Cope with Postpartum Depression

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• Once the hard thing is over I just want to bury it and never think about it again
• I lose my temper with my kid and then feel sick about it for hours
• I’ve gone quiet on everyone
• When I’m in the thick of something stressful I go quiet and tell myself I’ll call people once I’ve handled it
• I keep my head down and stay busy so I never actually feel the loss, and now it ambushes me at random and won’t metabolize

Practices that may help

1. Review what happened after the event to refine the next cope ahead
   Compare how you actually coped to your plan — the gap is your next training target.
   Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
2. Manage your own emotional state before responding
   A regulated parent is the single most powerful behavior management tool available.
   Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders)
3. Schedule social contact as a priority activity
   Treat social interaction as a prescribed activity, not as something to do when you feel ready.
   Pleasant Events Scheduling, Made Practical
4. Reach out when stressed, not after
   Contact a trusted person during stress, not only once it has passed — the oxytocin release is the active coping mechanism.
   Tend-and-Befriend, Made Practical
5. Deliberately engage loss-oriented work
   Set aside dedicated time to directly face the grief — the emotions, the absence, the meaning of the loss.
   The Dual Process Model of Grief, Made Practical
6. Grade activity difficulty upward gradually
   Start with the easiest feasible pleasant activity and increase demands only after success.
   Pleasant Events Scheduling, Made Practical
7. Look honestly for what has grown or changed for the better
   Without minimising the loss, notice any growth, change, or perspective that has emerged from it.
   Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical
8. Shift from one-person to two-person psychology
   Stop managing your distress alone and start managing it together.
   Secure-Functioning Relationships
9. Debrief after each stressful encounter
   Within 24 hours of a challenging event, review what you did, what worked, and what you will adjust.
   Stress Inoculation Training
10. Aerobic exercise for low mood and depression
    Sustained moderate cardio — brisk walking, cycling, running — as a mood regulator.
    Exercise for Mental Health

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