Coaching practices for How to Cope Postpartum Depression

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• Once the hard thing is over I just want to bury it and never think about it again
• When I’m in the thick of something stressful I go quiet and tell myself I’ll call people once I’ve handled it
• I lose my temper with my kid and then feel sick about it for hours
• I’ve gone quiet on everyone
• Things that used to be nothing

Practices that may help

1. Review what happened after the event to refine the next cope ahead
   Compare how you actually coped to your plan — the gap is your next training target.
   Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
2. Reach out when stressed, not after
   Contact a trusted person during stress, not only once it has passed — the oxytocin release is the active coping mechanism.
   Tend-and-Befriend, Made Practical
3. Manage your own emotional state before responding
   A regulated parent is the single most powerful behavior management tool available.
   Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders)
4. Schedule social contact as a priority activity
   Treat social interaction as a prescribed activity, not as something to do when you feel ready.
   Pleasant Events Scheduling, Made Practical
5. Grade activity difficulty upward gradually
   Start with the easiest feasible pleasant activity and increase demands only after success.
   Pleasant Events Scheduling, Made Practical
6. Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
   Cope ahead, a DBT skill developed by Marsha Linehan, involves mentally rehearsing a likely difficult situation in detail — imagining the emotions that will arise, and practicing the exact coping responses before the event. It is not positive visualization; it is stress-inoculation rehearsal that pre-loads effective responses so they are available under real-time pressure.
7. Deliberately engage loss-oriented work
   Set aside dedicated time to directly face the grief — the emotions, the absence, the meaning of the loss.
   The Dual Process Model of Grief, Made Practical
8. Aerobic exercise for low mood and depression
   Sustained moderate cardio — brisk walking, cycling, running — as a mood regulator.
   Exercise for Mental Health
9. The Coping Card
   A coping card is a physical or digital card carrying your pre-prepared rational responses to your most common distorted thoughts or crisis triggers — written in advance, when you are calm, so they are available when you are not. Coping cards are a standard CBT tool with strong clinical consensus; they work because working memory and rational access are impaired under stress, and a card externalizes the reasoning that would otherwise be unavailable.
10. Look honestly for what has grown or changed for the better
    Without minimising the loss, notice any growth, change, or perspective that has emerged from it.
    Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical

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