Coaching practices for How to Cope with Postpartum Depression

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• Once the hard thing is over I just want to bury it and never think about it again
• I’ve gone quiet on everyone
• I lose my temper with my kid and then feel sick about it for hours
• When I’m in the thick of something stressful I go quiet and tell myself I’ll call people once I’ve handled it
• Things that used to be nothing

Practices that may help

1. Review what happened after the event to refine the next cope ahead
   Compare how you actually coped to your plan — the gap is your next training target.
   Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
2. Schedule social contact as a priority activity
   Treat social interaction as a prescribed activity, not as something to do when you feel ready.
   Pleasant Events Scheduling, Made Practical
3. Manage your own emotional state before responding
   A regulated parent is the single most powerful behavior management tool available.
   Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders)
4. Reach out when stressed, not after
   Contact a trusted person during stress, not only once it has passed — the oxytocin release is the active coping mechanism.
   Tend-and-Befriend, Made Practical
5. Grade activity difficulty upward gradually
   Start with the easiest feasible pleasant activity and increase demands only after success.
   Pleasant Events Scheduling, Made Practical
6. Aerobic exercise for low mood and depression
   Sustained moderate cardio — brisk walking, cycling, running — as a mood regulator.
   Exercise for Mental Health
7. Deliberately engage loss-oriented work
   Set aside dedicated time to directly face the grief — the emotions, the absence, the meaning of the loss.
   The Dual Process Model of Grief, Made Practical
8. Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
   Cope ahead, a DBT skill developed by Marsha Linehan, involves mentally rehearsing a likely difficult situation in detail — imagining the emotions that will arise, and practicing the exact coping responses before the event. It is not positive visualization; it is stress-inoculation rehearsal that pre-loads effective responses so they are available under real-time pressure.
9. Look honestly for what has grown or changed for the better
   Without minimising the loss, notice any growth, change, or perspective that has emerged from it.
   Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical
10. Shift from one-person to two-person psychology
    Stop managing your distress alone and start managing it together.
    Secure-Functioning Relationships

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