Coaching practices for How Do You Prepare a Pre Schooler for Potentially Permanent Separation From a Close Friend
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- There’s a window every day
- I keep meaning to spend real one-on-one time with my kid but it gets squeezed out by everything else, and I think the unpredictability is part of why they keep grabbing at me
- After a blow-up with my kid we both stay frozen and far apart, and I keep trying to talk it through, to get an apology, while the distance just drags on
- We leave and come home with barely a glance
- Every conversation with my kid about their behavior turns into me laying down the law and them digging in, and I want a way to actually talk it through together
Practices that may help
- Use special time to fill the connection cup before problems escalate
A proactive ten-minute connection recharge can prevent an afternoon of battles.
Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting) - Schedule and protect special time as a non-negotiable
Put it in the calendar, name it, and keep the appointment.
Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting) - Use play to re-establish connection after conflict or separation
Playful physical contact after a difficult moment re-welds the relationship faster than discussion.
Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting) - Ritualize hellos and goodbyes
Make greetings and departures a deliberate, warm full-stop rather than background noise.
Secure-Functioning Relationships - Use Plan B: the three-step collaborative conversation
Empathize with the child’s concern, share yours, and invite them to solve it together.
Collaborative Problem Solving (Ross Greene) - Engage the upstairs brain through curiosity and play
Ask questions that require the child to think, imagine, or consider another perspective.
The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson) - Use a brief reset rather than escalating consequences
A short, calm time-out ends the incident without energizing it.
The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) - Premeditate adversity (the Stoic root)
Briefly and regularly rehearse loss and difficulty in advance, before any specific decision.
Fear-Setting, Made Practical - Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting)
Special time is a structured daily or near-daily practice of ten to twenty minutes of fully child-directed, uninterrupted one-on-one play, drawn from Lawrence Cohen's Playful Parenting framework. It fills the child’s attachment "cup," reduces bids for attention through misbehavior, and builds the relationship reserve that makes limits and teaching more effective. Clinical and observational evidence consistently supports child-directed play as a relationship and behavior intervention. - Plan behavior management strategies in advance
Decide how you will respond to predictable problems before they happen.
Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders)
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Playful physical contact after a difficult moment re-welds the relationship faster than discussion.
Use play to re-establish connection after conflict or separation
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Put it in the calendar, name it, and keep the appointment.
Schedule and protect special time as a non-negotiable
- Special Time Lawrence Cohen Playful Parenting After A Setback
Special time is a structured daily or near-daily practice of ten to twenty minutes of fully child-directed, uninterrupted one-on-one play, drawn from Lawrence Cohen's Playful Parenting framework. It fills the child’s attachment "cup," reduces bids for attention through misbehavior, and builds the relationship reserve that makes limits and teaching more effective. Clinical and observational evidence consistently supports child-directed play as a relationship and behavior intervention.
- Brief Time Out Children
A short, calm time-out ends the incident without energizing it.
Use a brief reset rather than escalating consequences
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Fifteen minutes of child-led, uninterrupted attention per day builds the relationship that discipline depends on.
Spend quality one-on-one time with your child
- How To Play With Your Child
Let the child decide what you do, how long you stay, and when you move on.
Follow the child’s lead completely during special time
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