Coaching practices for How to Cope with Separation Anxiety in Dogs
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- I’ve got all these little rules that keep me okay
- Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room
- We leave and come home with barely a glance
- I keep asking the people around me "are you sure it’s fine?" over and over
- The second they go quiet or take too long to reply, something in me lights up and I can’t sit still
Practices that may help
- Drop the safety behaviors
Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Engage with the present moment
Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Ritualize hellos and goodbyes
Make greetings and departures a deliberate, warm full-stop rather than background noise.
Secure-Functioning Relationships - Fade reassurance-seeking
Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Regulate the anxious protest response
For anxious activation, soothe the alarm before acting on the urge to pursue or test.
Attachment Theory, Made Usable - Stay in the situation for the full arc
Leave only after the attack has peaked and begun to subside — not in the middle, no matter how strong the urge.
Panic Surfing - Run toward the feeling
Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Gradually drop safety behaviors
Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Fade reliance on a support person
Gradually enter feared situations with decreasing support from a person who has been a source of safety.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - For anxious: down-regulate before pursuing
The anxious pursuit, when driven by panic, always makes things worse -- soothe first, then reach.
The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: Why Opposites Attract and Then Struggle
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