Coaching practices for How Do I Deal with Separation Anxiety in My Dog

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’ve got all these little rules that keep me okay
• Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room
• I keep asking the people around me "are you sure it’s fine?" over and over
• I spend my days bracing for the next wave of it, scanning my body, dreading the moment it shows up
• The instant it hits in a store or a meeting, the only thought is get out now

Practices that may help

1. Drop the safety behaviors
   Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
2. Engage with the present moment
   Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
3. Fade reassurance-seeking
   Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
4. Run toward the feeling
   Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
5. Stay in the situation for the full arc
   Leave only after the attack has peaked and begun to subside — not in the middle, no matter how strong the urge.
   Panic Surfing
6. Gradually drop safety behaviors
   Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
   The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
7. Fade reliance on a support person
   Gradually enter feared situations with decreasing support from a person who has been a source of safety.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
8. Regulate the anxious protest response
   For anxious activation, soothe the alarm before acting on the urge to pursue or test.
   Attachment Theory, Made Usable
9. Run the full 5-4-3-2-1 sequence
   Work through all five senses in order: 5 things seen, 4 heard, 3 touched, 2 smelled, 1 tasted.
   The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
10. Prolonged exposure: stay until distress drops
    Enter the feared situation and stay until anxiety peaks and then noticeably decreases on its own.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them

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