Coaching practices for How to Cope with Separation Anxiety in Toddlers
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I keep asking the people around me "are you sure it’s fine?" over and over
- I’ve got all these little rules that keep me okay
- There’s a window every day
- I can only handle the scary situation if I’ve got my little crutch
- The storm has finally passed and my kid is calm again, and I keep wanting to either just move on or fix the situation for them
Practices that may help
- Fade reassurance-seeking
Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Drop the safety behaviors
Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Use special time to fill the connection cup before problems escalate
A proactive ten-minute connection recharge can prevent an afternoon of battles.
Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting) - Gradually drop safety behaviors
Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Problem-solve together once the child is calm
After the emotional storm passes, invite the child to find a solution with you.
Emotion Coaching (John Gottman) - Schedule and protect special time as a non-negotiable
Put it in the calendar, name it, and keep the appointment.
Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting) - Eliminate safety behaviors
Identify and drop the subtle actions that reduce anxiety but prevent learning you don’t need them.
Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them - Listen empathically and validate the feeling
Reflect the emotion you see accurately before you do anything else.
Emotion Coaching (John Gottman) - For avoidant: stay present longer before withdrawing
The withdrawal that protects you from overwhelm drives your partner’s fear -- delay it by 10 percent.
The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: Why Opposites Attract and Then Struggle - Engage with the present moment
Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
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