Coaching practices for How to Deal with Your Emotions Biblically

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• When I’m upset I’m completely fused with the story
• When a big feeling crashes over me it’s like I become it
• It’s never the logistics that wreck me, it’s the feeling
• The fear tells me to avoid and the hurt tells me to lash out, and every time I obey the urge it just feeds the feeling bigger
• Whatever I’m feeling, I pile on top of it

Practices that may help

1. O — Observe: Notice What Is Actually Happening
   After the stop, observe the situation, your emotions, and your urges — without judgment and without acting on them.
   The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
2. Mindfulness of the current emotion
   Observe the emotion as a wave passing through — without judging it, feeding it, or running from it.
   DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical
3. Name the emotions the situation will likely produce
   Predict which feelings will show up and at what intensity — so they are not surprises when they arrive.
   Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
4. Check the facts and opposite action
   Test whether an emotion fits the facts; if it doesn’t, act opposite to its urge to change it.
   Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills, Made Practical
5. N — Nurture with self-compassion
   Offer the part that is suffering what it most needs — care, acknowledgment, reassurance — as you would a dear friend.
   RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
6. Give yourself permission to feel
   Drop the judgment about whether you should or shouldn’t feel a certain way — the emotion is already there.
   Radical Honesty About Emotions, Made Practical
7. Riding the emotion wave with anicca awareness
   When a strong emotion hits, track it through its full arc — notice it peak and fall without fleeing or amplifying.
   Anicca: Working Practically with Impermanence
8. Check the facts
   Before acting on an emotion, ask whether your interpretation of the situation actually fits the evidence.
   DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical
9. Understand the function of the emotion
   Every emotion evolved because it does something useful — learn what yours is trying to do.
   DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical
10. P — Proceed Mindfully: Act from Wisdom, Not Impulse
    After observing, ask: "What action is consistent with my goals and values right now?" — then act on that.
    The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments

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