Coaching practices for How to Handle Separation Anxiety in Puppy
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- We leave and come home with barely a glance
- The instant it hits in a store or a meeting, the only thought is get out now
- I’ve got all these little rules that keep me okay
- When it gets too intense I just shut down and walk off to cool down
- I can only do certain things if a particular person comes with me
Practices that may help
- Ritualize hellos and goodbyes
Make greetings and departures a deliberate, warm full-stop rather than background noise.
Secure-Functioning Relationships - Stay in the situation for the full arc
Leave only after the attack has peaked and begun to subside — not in the middle, no matter how strong the urge.
Panic Surfing - Drop the safety behaviors
Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Withdrawer: signal presence before retreating
Before you need to step back, tell your partner you are coming back.
The Pursuer-Withdrawer Cycle, Explained - Fade reliance on a support person
Gradually enter feared situations with decreasing support from a person who has been a source of safety.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Regulate the anxious protest response
For anxious activation, soothe the alarm before acting on the urge to pursue or test.
Attachment Theory, Made Usable - Stay in the situation until anxiety drops
Remain in the feared situation long enough for distress to fall — leaving early teaches the wrong lesson.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Fade reassurance-seeking
Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Gradually drop safety behaviors
Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Plan behavior management strategies in advance
Decide how you will respond to predictable problems before they happen.
Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders)
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Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
Drop the safety behaviors
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Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
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