Coaching practices for How to Help an Elderly Paranoid Parent
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- I keep asking the people around me "are you sure it’s fine?" over and over
- I can only do certain things if a particular person comes with me
- My boss keeps checking in and hovering over my work, and it makes me feel untrusted
- I’ve got all these little things I do to get through anxious moments
- I can only handle the scary situation if I’ve got my little crutch
Practices that may help
- Fade reassurance-seeking
Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Fade reliance on a support person
Gradually enter feared situations with decreasing support from a person who has been a source of safety.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Send proactive, brief status updates
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Map your safety-behavior inventory
List every action you take to prevent feared outcomes in anxiety-provoking situations.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Gradually drop safety behaviors
Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Orienting to your surroundings
Slowly turn your head and let your eyes land on the room, signaling that the present is safe.
Grounding Techniques for Acute Distress - Run exposures without safety behaviors
Do induction exercises while deliberately leaving out the coping props you normally rely on.
Interoceptive Exposure for Panic - Engage with the present moment
Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Use Plan B: the three-step collaborative conversation
Empathize with the child’s concern, share yours, and invite them to solve it together.
Collaborative Problem Solving (Ross Greene) - Drop the safety behaviors
Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Agoraphobia Support Person
Gradually enter feared situations with decreasing support from a person who has been a source of safety.
Fade reliance on a support person
- Anxiety Crutches
Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
Drop the safety behaviors
- Controlled Re Entry Anxiety
Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
Engage with the present moment
- Helping 6 Year Old With Anxiety Disorder To Cope After My Visits End
Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
Fade reassurance-seeking
- How Deal With Separation Anxiety
Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
- How Do I Deal With Separation Anxiety
Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
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