Coaching practices for How to Open a Negotiation

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• I always open with a "fair" number to seem reasonable and not greedy, and I keep ending up closer to their side than mine
• I’m walking into a negotiation and I want the other side to feel like meeting me halfway is their idea
• The second they push back I either cave completely or harden into all-or-nothing, because I walked in without ever deciding what I could actually live with
• A salary conversation is coming and I freeze on the number
• I’ve got a negotiation coming up and I’m walking in half-blind

Practices that may help

1. Anchor your opening near your end of the ZOPA
   Open ambitiously — but inside the plausible zone — to shift the expected settlement point in your direction.
   ZOPA: The Zone of Possible Agreement
2. Use reciprocal concessions in negotiation
   Make a large ask first; concede to your real ask — the concession feels like a gift.
   The Rule of Reciprocity, Made Practical
3. Negotiate: know your minimum and be willing to give and take
   Decide in advance what you are willing to accept short of your full ask, and be ready to offer something in exchange.
   DEAR MAN: DBT’s Skill for Asking for What You Want Effectively
4. Use the door-in-the-face structure in salary and price negotiations
   In salary negotiation, opening high is partly a door-in-the-face move — your real ask lands against a high anchor.
   The Door-in-the-Face Technique, Made Practical
5. Map the ZOPA before negotiating
   Know your walk-away point and estimate theirs before the first offer is made.
   Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference
6. Run a negotiation debrief to learn what value was left on the table
   After closing, compare priorities with the other side to see the trades you both missed.
   Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference
7. Expand the pie before you divide it
   In negotiations, surface what the other side actually values most before claiming your share.
   Give and Take: The Giver Advantage
8. Map the likely ZOPA before the first session
   Estimate both your own and the counterpart’s reservation points before you open, so you know what deal space exists.
   ZOPA: The Zone of Possible Agreement
9. Share information to unlock value
   Reveal interests (not your bottom line) so both sides can find the better deal.
   Win-Win Thinking: Expanding the Pie
10. Calibrated questions
    Ask open “How” and “What” questions that hand the other side the problem to solve.
    Never Split the Difference, In Practice

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