Coaching practices for How to Reduce Self Serving Bias
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- I’m about to lock in a judgment and I’m only seeing the evidence that backs it
- When I just hand someone my assessment they go passive and defensive, like I’m doing something to them
- When I replay this in my own head I always land on the same tidy story, and some part of me suspects I’m protecting myself
- Mid-argument I can feel myself stop weighing the facts and start scrambling for comebacks
- I bend over backwards to be fair to everyone else and then quietly leave myself out of the equation entirely
Practices that may help
- Confirmation Bias: Seeing What You Expect to See
Confirmation bias is the tendency to seek, notice, and remember information that confirms existing beliefs, while ignoring or discounting contradictory evidence. It is among the most robustly documented cognitive biases. Debiasing is difficult and partial — knowing about it helps less than most people assume — but structured practices (actively seeking disconfirming evidence, pre-mortems, and adversarial collaboration) reliably reduce its impact. - Consider the opposite before finalizing a judgment
Deliberately generate the case for the conclusion you are not reaching.
Motivated Reasoning - Ask what the person already knows before offering your assessment
Ask the person to evaluate their own performance before giving yours.
The Feedback Sandwich: Why It Doesn’t Work and What to Do Instead - Include a trusted other in high-stakes AARs
Self-conducted AARs have blind spots; a peer or coach who was not inside the event sees the causal story differently.
After-Action Review: The US Army’s Tool for Continuous Learning - Notice when you are in soldier mode
Catch the moment your brain shifts from truth-seeking to self-defending.
The Scout Mindset - Be Fair: include yourself in the fairness you extend to others
Apply the same standards of fairness to yourself that you would to someone you respect.
FAST: DBT’s Skill for Maintaining Self-Respect in Relationships - Recognize when contrast is being used on you
Awareness of the contrast principle is the antidote — evaluate options against an independent standard, not the presented sequence.
The Contrast Principle, Made Practical - Audit and reduce your self-orientation
Self-orientation is the denominator: a small increase in it wipes out gains in all three numerator variables.
The Trust Equation, Made Practical - Receive feedback with minimal defensiveness
Treat feedback as data about others’ experience — not as a verdict on your character.
The Johari Window - Affirm before receiving critical feedback
Do a brief values reflection before reading a critical evaluation so you can take in the information rather than defend against it.
Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical
Related concerns
- How To Notice Bias
Confirmation bias is the tendency to seek, notice, and remember information that confirms existing beliefs, while ignoring or discounting contradictory evidence. It is among the most robustly documented cognitive biases. Debiasing is difficult and partial — knowing about it helps less than most people assume — but structured practices (actively seeking disconfirming evidence, pre-mortems, and adversarial collaboration) reliably reduce its impact.
- How To Overcome Unconscious Bias In The Workplace
Catch the moment your brain shifts from truth-seeking to self-defending.
Notice when you are in soldier mode
- Impact Bias Correction
Recognize that some forecast inflation is genuine bias and some is deliberate spin — they require different fixes.
Distinguish cognitive optimism bias from strategic misrepresentation
- Reasoning Bias Prevention
Motivated reasoning, studied extensively by Ziva Kunda and others, is the tendency to reason toward a conclusion you want to reach rather than wherever the evidence leads. It is not conscious deception — the brain generates genuinely felt arguments for the preferred conclusion. Detection and structured debiasing techniques reduce but do not eliminate it; awareness alone is insufficient.
- Assumption Challenging Feedback
Ask for feedback that challenges your assumptions about how you see, not just how you perform.
Seek developmental feedback, not just performance feedback
- Authority Bias
Estimate what you’d accept under comparable known-odds risk — if your bar is much higher for unknown odds, that gap is the bias.
Check whether you’re demanding an unfair ambiguity premium
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