Coaching practices for How to Think Clearly Under Emotion

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• I’m too wound up to think straight about this
• I’ve managed to pause and breathe, but now I’m frozen
• When I’m upset I’m completely fused with the story
• I’m so flooded right now I can’t think
• When a big feeling crashes over me it’s like I become it

Practices that may help

1. Manage emotional arousal before and during problem solving
   Use a brief calming strategy when emotions are too high to solve problems effectively.
   Problem-Solving Therapy, Made Practical
2. P — Proceed Mindfully: Act from Wisdom, Not Impulse
   After observing, ask: "What action is consistent with my goals and values right now?" — then act on that.
   The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
3. O — Observe: Notice What Is Actually Happening
   After the stop, observe the situation, your emotions, and your urges — without judgment and without acting on them.
   The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
4. TIPP: Rapid Physiological De-escalation for Intense Distress
   Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Paired muscle relaxation to bring crisis-level emotion down quickly.
   The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
5. Mindfulness of the current emotion
   Observe the emotion as a wave passing through — without judging it, feeding it, or running from it.
   DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical
6. Bring feelings into the conversation deliberately
   Name the emotions instead of leaking them — unspoken feelings don’t leave, they distort.
   Difficult Conversations, Made Practical
7. Walk your why — act from values, not from mood
   Choose your response based on what matters to you, not on what the emotion is demanding.
   Emotional Agility, Made Practical
8. Simple affect label: say the emotion word aloud or in writing
   When emotionally activated, say or write one clear emotion word — "fear," "anger," "grief" — before doing anything else.
   Name It to Tame It: Affect Labeling in Practice
9. Observe the emotion without feeding it
   When a strong emotion hits, watch it without adding the story that keeps it going.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
10. Name the emotion and what triggered it
    Start by identifying the emotion specifically and the event that preceded it — without mixing interpretation in.
    Check the Facts, Made Practical

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