Coaching practices for Interviewing with an Unmentioned 9 Months of Sick Leave Taken During a Job
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- When I talk to people in the field they give me the polished official version, and I walk away no clearer on what the day-to-day actually feels like
- I’ve got the conversation booked but I’m staring at a blank page of questions, worried I’ll waste their time asking things I could’ve Googled
- I keep telling myself I’ll really live once I retire, but I’m tired now and that’s decades away
- Someone asks "so what are you looking for?" and I ramble out something vague and apologetic
- The conversation goes great and then it just...
Practices that may help
- Listen for what isn’t in the job description
Focus on the texture of day-to-day work, not the official narrative.
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Take a mini-retirement instead of deferring life
Take extended breaks (weeks to months) distributed throughout your career rather than one deferred retirement.
Lifestyle Design, Made Practical - Practise your story before you need it
Have a clear, genuine two-minute narrative about who you are and where you’re headed.
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Close every informational interview with one forward step
End by asking: "Is there someone else you think I should talk to?"
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Communicate your spoon count to people who need to know
Give people close to you a shorthand for your available capacity, so they can adjust expectations without requiring a medical explanation each time.
Spoon Theory, Made Practical - Handling external interruptions
Use the inform–negotiate–schedule–call-back protocol to protect the sprint.
The Pomodoro Technique, Made Practical - Conduct a habit audit after any major disruption
After illness, travel, or any routine disruption, deliberately audit which habits are still active and reinstall those that lapsed.
The Habit Discontinuity Effect - Capture context before every forced switch
When a forced context switch is unavoidable, spend 60 seconds capturing exactly where you are before stepping away.
Context Switching Cost: Why Task Switching Wrecks Focus
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Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
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- Applying To Job Postings That Ask For Personal Information Like Address Upfront
Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
- Breastfeeding And A Job Interview
Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
- Career Conversation Request
A short, specific, no-pressure request gets far more responses than a vague networking ask.
Request the conversation the right way
- Career Research Conversations
An informational interview is a low-stakes conversation with someone in a role or field you’re curious about — you ask questions, they share experience, and no job is on the table. Richard Bolles’s What Color Is Your Parachute? popularised this as a career research tool; the evidence is largely observational and practitioner, but it consistently shows that direct conversation with insiders produces better career decisions and unexpected referrals.
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