Coaching practices for Make Bad Habits Harder
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- The thing I’m trying to cut is just too easy
- My new habits only survive on the good days when I’m rested and motivated, then the first hard, exhausting day comes and they collapse
- My bad habits run on autopilot but the good one I’m trying to build never feels automatic
- Every time I try to break this habit I just try to white-knuckle it away and grit my teeth through the craving
- I do great with a new habit until the first bad day
Practices that may help
- Add friction to unwanted behaviors
Inserting even a small obstacle between you and an unwanted behavior meaningfully reduces how often it happens.
Environment Design for Behavior Change - Shrink the behavior until it’s tiny
Scale the habit down to something you can do even on your worst, busiest day.
Tiny Habits, Made Practical - Build a craving deliberately to cement a new habit
Create an anticipatory craving for the reward of a new behavior before the reward arrives.
The Habit Loop, Made Practical - Keep the cue and reward, swap the routine
Duhigg’s “golden rule”: change a habit by inserting a new routine between the same cue and reward.
The Power of Habit, Made Practical - Design the habit to be no-fail even on your worst day
A habit that can be skipped on hard days will be skipped — the minimum must survive your worst-case day.
Mini Habits, Made Practical - Fire the new routine on the original cue
Leave the trigger in place and attach the new behavior to it, every time.
Habit Substitution: Swap the Routine, Keep the Reward - Choose between carrots and sticks based on your goal type
Sticks (loss-framed penalties) work better for stopping behaviors; carrots (rewards) work better for starting new ones.
Commitment Contracts, Made Practical - Reduce friction for good behaviors to near zero
Make the healthy behavior the path of least resistance by removing every avoidable obstacle between you and starting.
Environment Design for Behavior Change - Make it attractive with temptation bundling
Pair a behavior you should do with one you want to do.
Atomic Habits, Made Practical - Reduce friction on desired behaviors
Make the healthy choice two fewer steps than the unhealthy one.
Nudge Theory, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Add Friction Bad Habits
Inserting even a small obstacle between you and an unwanted behavior meaningfully reduces how often it happens.
Add friction to unwanted behaviors
- Add Friction To Bad Habits
Create an anticipatory craving for the reward of a new behavior before the reward arrives.
Build a craving deliberately to cement a new habit
- How To Make Good Habits Easy
Place obvious, consistent triggers in your environment to start a desired routine.
Engineer cues for habits you want
- Obstacle Bad Habit
Inserting even a small obstacle between you and an unwanted behavior meaningfully reduces how often it happens.
- How To Break A Bad Habit
Duhigg’s “golden rule”: change a habit by inserting a new routine between the same cue and reward.
Keep the cue and reward, swap the routine
- How To Handle Habit Failure
Treat habit formation as a series of small experiments rather than a commitment you either keep or blow.
Apply PDSA to a behavior you want to build or break
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