Coaching practices for Morning Pages During Conflict

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I wake up with my head already crammed full of noise and worry, and it bleeds into everything I try to do all day
  • My calendar gets sliced into meetings from the moment I sit down, so my sharpest hours go to status syncs and the real work always waits for the worn-out end of the day
  • The instant I wake up I grab my phone and scroll through emails and feeds, and by the time I look up my whole head is full of other people’s demands
  • I wake up already crowded
  • There’s real friction on my team

Practices that may help

  1. Write three pages longhand, every morning
    Fill three notebook pages by hand before doing anything else — no editing, no re-reading.
    Morning Pages, Made Practical
  2. Morning Pages, Made Practical
    Morning pages — three longhand pages of uncensored writing done first thing each day — is a tool from Julia Cameron’s The Artist’s Way designed to clear mental noise and surface creative impulses that the inner critic normally suppresses. Evidence is largely anecdotal and practitioner-reported, but the mechanism (externalising rumination, bypassing self-censorship) is consistent with expressive-writing research.
  3. Protect mornings for deep work — no internal meetings before noon
    Morning is when cognitive capacity is highest for most people; spending it on reactive coordination is a predictable waste.
    Designing a Calm Company (Fried & Hansson)
  4. Protect the first 30 minutes from screens
    Write before you read anything — screens shift your agenda from internal to reactive before the pages can do their work.
    Morning Pages, Made Practical
  5. Morning pages
    Three pages of longhand, stream-of-consciousness writing first thing, for no one but you.
    The Artist’s Way, Made Practical
  6. Storming: name the conflict without taking sides
    Surface the tension that’s already there rather than managing it away.
    Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
  7. Protect fondness actively during and after conflict
    Conflict is the test of PSO — deliberately hold the positive frame while the negative one is loudest.
    Positive Sentiment Override: How to Build the Lens That Protects Relationships
  8. Use check-in and check-out rounds to hold the whole person
    Every circle opens with a personal check-in and closes with a check-out — creating a container with a beginning and an end.
    The Circle Process (Kay Pranis)
  9. Let the pages hold both gratitude and grievance
    Don’t filter for positivity — legitimate complaints and frustrations belong on the page too.
    Morning Pages, Made Practical
  10. Transform the relationship, not just the issue
    Use each conflict as an opportunity to raise the quality of the relationship itself.
    The Third Alternative, Made Practical

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