Coaching practices for Pre Expose Ideas Persuasion

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  • I lead straight in with my pitch and watch people’s guard go up before I’ve finished a sentence
  • Every time I drop a big new idea on people cold, in the meeting, they shut it down on reflex
  • I get someone on board, and then they go talk to someone who pushes back, and by the time I see them again they’ve quietly drifted right back to where they started
  • I want to invite someone to try a new approach, and I sense it would land far better if they first connected it to how they already see themselves
  • My openings are so predictable and safe that I can watch the audience mentally check out in the first ten seconds

Practices that may help

  1. Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
    Pre-suasion, Robert Cialdini’s term, is the practice of directing attention to a concept or feeling immediately before a message so that the audience is primed to receive it favorably. The core finding is that what people are thinking about just before a message reshapes how they interpret it — making the moment before you speak as important as the message itself.
  2. Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask
    Briefly focus the audience on a concept that makes your core message naturally follow.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  3. Pre-expose an idea before formally proposing it
    Introduce a concept informally and repeatedly before you need a decision on it — familiarity softens resistance.
    The Mere Exposure Effect, Made Practical
  4. Inoculate against counter-persuasion
    Expose people to weakened counter-arguments so they build resistance before a real attack arrives.
    Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical
  5. Prime identity before the ask — "what kind of person are you?"
    Invite the person to describe who they are in terms that align with the behavior you’re requesting.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  6. Open with something unexpected to direct attention deliberately
    Surprise briefly resets attention, letting you redirect it to whatever follows.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  7. Diagnose which route your audience is on before you speak
    Check motivation and capacity before choosing how to frame your message.
    Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical
  8. Place your message in a context that evokes the right associations
    Context — physical, digital, or conversational — frames how a message is received before the first word.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  9. Use peripheral cues when elaboration is low
    Source credibility, social proof, and liking move low-engagement audiences where logic cannot.
    Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical
  10. Match your message frame to the audience’s motivation type
    Promotion-focused audiences respond to gains; prevention-focused ones respond to avoiding losses.
    Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical

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