Coaching practices for Attention Priming Persuasion

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I lead straight in with my pitch and watch people’s guard go up before I’ve finished a sentence
  • I keep raising my important ask at the worst possible moment
  • I try to bring up the thing that really matters while the other person is half-looking at their phone or rushing between tasks, and then I’m puzzled why it doesn’t register
  • My openings are so predictable and safe that I can watch the audience mentally check out in the first ten seconds
  • I can hold the intention to be a certain way in my head all morning, but the second I’m standing in the actual spot

Practices that may help

  1. Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask
    Briefly focus the audience on a concept that makes your core message naturally follow.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  2. Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
    Pre-suasion, Robert Cialdini’s term, is the practice of directing attention to a concept or feeling immediately before a message so that the audience is primed to receive it favorably. The core finding is that what people are thinking about just before a message reshapes how they interpret it — making the moment before you speak as important as the message itself.
  3. Place your message in a context that evokes the right associations
    Context — physical, digital, or conversational — frames how a message is received before the first word.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  4. Identity Priming, Made Practical
    Identity priming is the finding that briefly activating a self-concept (e.g., "I am someone who values health") before a decision increases the chance of behavior consistent with that identity. Effects are real but modest and context-dependent; they are most reliable when the identity is already part of how you genuinely see yourself.
  5. Create a privileged moment — a context of undivided focus
    Secure genuine attention before delivering your most important message.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  6. Open with something unexpected to direct attention deliberately
    Surprise briefly resets attention, letting you redirect it to whatever follows.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  7. Prime your identity with environmental cues
    Place objects, images, or phrases that represent your desired identity in the spaces where the relevant behavior happens.
    Identity Priming, Made Practical
  8. Prime identity before the ask — "what kind of person are you?"
    Invite the person to describe who they are in terms that align with the behavior you’re requesting.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  9. Increase personal relevance to shift the audience to the central route
    Show people what is personally at stake before presenting your argument.
    Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical
  10. Diagnose which route your audience is on before you speak
    Check motivation and capacity before choosing how to frame your message.
    Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical

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