Coaching practices for How to Prime an Audience

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  • I lead straight in with my pitch and watch people’s guard go up before I’ve finished a sentence
  • My openings are so predictable and safe that I can watch the audience mentally check out in the first ten seconds
  • I watch people’s eyes glaze over while I’m still setting up the background, and by the time I finally say what I actually mean they’ve already checked out
  • I keep raising my important ask at the worst possible moment
  • I try to bring up the thing that really matters while the other person is half-looking at their phone or rushing between tasks, and then I’m puzzled why it doesn’t register

Practices that may help

  1. Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask
    Briefly focus the audience on a concept that makes your core message naturally follow.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  2. Open with something unexpected to direct attention deliberately
    Surprise briefly resets attention, letting you redirect it to whatever follows.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  3. Lead with the answer, not the build-up
    State your conclusion or recommendation first, then provide the supporting evidence.
    The Minto Pyramid Principle
  4. Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
    Pre-suasion, Robert Cialdini’s term, is the practice of directing attention to a concept or feeling immediately before a message so that the audience is primed to receive it favorably. The core finding is that what people are thinking about just before a message reshapes how they interpret it — making the moment before you speak as important as the message itself.
  5. Place your message in a context that evokes the right associations
    Context — physical, digital, or conversational — frames how a message is received before the first word.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  6. Create a privileged moment — a context of undivided focus
    Secure genuine attention before delivering your most important message.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  7. Lead with a character, not a point
    Open with a specific person in a specific situation before you state your argument.
    Storytelling for Persuasion, Made Practical
  8. Frame problems with SCQA (Situation–Complication–Question–Answer)
    Use the SCQA framework to establish context cleanly before stating your recommendation.
    The Minto Pyramid Principle
  9. Prime identity before the ask — "what kind of person are you?"
    Invite the person to describe who they are in terms that align with the behavior you’re requesting.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  10. Harness visible commitment in group settings
    When one person in a group makes a visible commitment, others follow — start with the most willing.
    Social Proof, Made Practical

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