Coaching practices for Priming in Persuasion

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I lead straight in with my pitch and watch people’s guard go up before I’ve finished a sentence
  • I keep raising my important ask at the worst possible moment
  • I want to invite someone to try a new approach, and I sense it would land far better if they first connected it to how they already see themselves
  • My openings are so predictable and safe that I can watch the audience mentally check out in the first ten seconds
  • When I’m trying to bring someone around, they treat me as an outsider pushing my own agenda

Practices that may help

  1. Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask
    Briefly focus the audience on a concept that makes your core message naturally follow.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  2. Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
    Pre-suasion, Robert Cialdini’s term, is the practice of directing attention to a concept or feeling immediately before a message so that the audience is primed to receive it favorably. The core finding is that what people are thinking about just before a message reshapes how they interpret it — making the moment before you speak as important as the message itself.
  3. Place your message in a context that evokes the right associations
    Context — physical, digital, or conversational — frames how a message is received before the first word.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  4. Prime identity before the ask — "what kind of person are you?"
    Invite the person to describe who they are in terms that align with the behavior you’re requesting.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  5. Identity Priming, Made Practical
    Identity priming is the finding that briefly activating a self-concept (e.g., "I am someone who values health") before a decision increases the chance of behavior consistent with that identity. Effects are real but modest and context-dependent; they are most reliable when the identity is already part of how you genuinely see yourself.
  6. Open with something unexpected to direct attention deliberately
    Surprise briefly resets attention, letting you redirect it to whatever follows.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  7. Activate unity — shared identity before the message
    Establish genuine shared identity with your audience before presenting your position.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  8. Inoculate against counter-persuasion
    Expose people to weakened counter-arguments so they build resistance before a real attack arrives.
    Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical
  9. Elicit a small consistency cue before the main ask
    Get a small, genuine agreement or self-description before the main request — people act consistently with what they’ve said.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  10. Lead with the answer, not the build-up
    State your conclusion or recommendation first, then provide the supporting evidence.
    The Minto Pyramid Principle

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