Coaching practices for Problem Solving Therapy When Overwhelmed
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I’m too wound up to think straight about this
- I’ve got maybe two ideas for what to do about this and both feel hopeless, so I shoot every other thought down before I even finish it
- I’ve got a few options on the table but I keep drifting toward whichever one scares me least instead of whichever would actually fix things
- The second a problem lands my gut reaction is "of course, this is just me, I can’t handle anything"
- I burn enormous energy trying to fix things that aren’t mine to fix, and then go quiet and just stew over the things I actually could do something about
Practices that may help
- Manage emotional arousal before and during problem solving
Use a brief calming strategy when emotions are too high to solve problems effectively.
Problem-Solving Therapy, Made Practical - Generate solutions without premature evaluation
List as many potential solutions as possible before judging any of them.
Problem-Solving Therapy, Made Practical - Evaluate solutions against costs, benefits, and fit
Rate each solution on likelihood of success, personal costs, and fit with your values.
Problem-Solving Therapy, Made Practical - Problem-Solving Therapy, Made Practical
Problem-Solving Therapy (PST), developed by Nezu and D’Zurilla, treats depression and anxiety by building structured, step-by-step problem-solving skills — targeting the learned helplessness and avoidance that occur when people face stressful life problems without an effective coping framework. Multiple randomised trials support PST for depression, especially when linked to real-life problem load. - Build a positive problem orientation
Treat problems as normal, solvable challenges rather than signs of personal failure.
Problem-Solving Therapy, Made Practical - Match coping mode to what is actually controllable
Use problem-focused coping when you can change the situation; emotion-focused coping when you cannot.
Stress Inoculation Training - Define the problem precisely before solving it
Write a concrete, specific problem statement — most people try to solve vague problems.
Problem-Solving Therapy, Made Practical - Problem-solve together once the child is calm
After the emotional storm passes, invite the child to find a solution with you.
Emotion Coaching (John Gottman) - Hold Plan B conversations proactively, not reactively
Solve the problem before the next explosion, when everyone is calm.
Collaborative Problem Solving (Ross Greene) - Maintain an unsolved problems list
Write down recurring triggers so they become solvable problems rather than repeated emergencies.
Collaborative Problem Solving (Ross Greene)
Related concerns
- Problem Solving Therapy When Burned Out
Use problem-focused coping when you can change the situation; emotion-focused coping when you cannot.
Match coping mode to what is actually controllable
- Problem Solving Anxiety
Problem-Solving Therapy (PST), developed by Nezu and D’Zurilla, treats depression and anxiety by building structured, step-by-step problem-solving skills — targeting the learned helplessness and avoidance that occur when people face stressful life problems without an effective coping framework. Multiple randomised trials support PST for depression, especially when linked to real-life problem load.
- Problem Solving Therapy For My Teenager
A collaborative solution that fails one of three tests — realistic, mutually satisfying, safe — will not hold.
Evaluate solutions for durability: realistic, mutually satisfying, safe
- Problem Solving Therapy Under Stress
Use a brief calming strategy when emotions are too high to solve problems effectively.
Manage emotional arousal before and during problem solving
- Structured Problem Solving Anxiety
Use a brief calming strategy when emotions are too high to solve problems effectively.
- Calm Before Problem Solving
Use a brief calming strategy when emotions are too high to solve problems effectively.
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