Coaching practices for Relationship Building Leadership

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • Where I come alive is in the human glue
  • There are people on my team I’ve quietly written off
  • I keep waiting for my manager to notice me and hand me more trust, and it’s not happening
  • My boss took a real chance on me and advocated for me, and I just took it and moved on without ever closing the loop
  • With new people I try to fast-forward to being close

Practices that may help

  1. Lead from the relationship building domain — hold the team together
    People strong in relationship building are the glue that holds a team’s cohesion under pressure.
    Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical
  2. Deliberately expand your inner circle
    Move team members from low-LMX to high-LMX through intentional relationship investment.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  3. Invest in the relationship before you need it
    Build relational credit through reliability and initiative, not charm or performance alone.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  4. Reciprocate when your leader invests in you
    When a leader gives you trust, opportunity, or advocacy, close the loop with visible follow-through.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  5. Earn the right to deepen the relationship in stages
    Trust compounds over time — start with technical credibility and expand into intimacy as it is earned.
    The Trust Equation, Made Practical
  6. Manage LMX differentiation fairly as a leader
    Acknowledge that you develop different relationships with different people — and ensure the differences are earned, not arbitrary.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  7. Repair a damaged leader-follower relationship deliberately
    Take active steps to reset a deteriorated relationship, rather than allowing avoidance to compound the damage.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  8. Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
    Leader-member exchange theory, developed by George Graen and Mary Uhl-Bien, holds that leaders do not treat all followers the same — they develop distinct dyadic relationships ranging from high-LMX (trust, respect, mutual obligation) to low-LMX (formal, exchange-based). High-LMX relationships are consistently associated with better performance, satisfaction, and career outcomes in observational research.
  9. Assess the current quality of your leader-member relationship
    Honestly diagnose where you stand in the relationship before trying to improve it.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  10. Make cross-cluster introductions
    Introduce two people from different clusters who genuinely benefit from meeting.
    The Strength of Weak Ties

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