Coaching practices for Restorative Justice Howard Zehr After a Loss
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- We’re trying to settle this just between the two of us, but the truth is a whole group felt the fallout and their trust took a hit too
- Something went wrong between us and everyone immediately jumps to whose fault it is
- The person did the work to make it right, but everyone’s still keeping them at arm’s length
- They keep treating what they did as a rule they broke, an abstraction — and they have no real idea what it actually did to me day to day.
- We had the emotional talk, there were tears and apologies, and then nothing actually changed
Practices that may help
- Restorative Justice (Howard Zehr)
Restorative justice is an approach to harm that focuses on repairing relationships and meeting the needs of those harmed, rather than on punishment. Developed by Howard Zehr and others, it asks three questions: Who was harmed? What do they need? Who is responsible for meeting those needs? Research on restorative programs shows higher victim satisfaction and, in many contexts, lower reoffending compared to conventional punitive approaches — though results vary by context. - Involve the affected community, not just the two parties
Harm rarely affects only two people — include those affected by the ripple.
Restorative Justice (Howard Zehr) - Ask the three restorative questions
Start every harm conversation with: who was hurt, what do they need, and who is responsible for meeting those needs?
Restorative Justice (Howard Zehr) - Aim for reintegration, not permanent labeling
Accountability is not a permanent identity; the goal is for the responsible party to re-enter the community as a full member.
Restorative Justice (Howard Zehr) - Make the harm visible through an impact statement
The person who caused harm must hear — in detail — what the harm actually did to the person harmed.
Restorative Justice (Howard Zehr) - Build a concrete accountability agreement
Accountability is a plan, not just a feeling — write down what will be done, by whom, and by when.
Restorative Justice (Howard Zehr) - Ensure participation is voluntary for all parties
Restorative processes only work when everyone — especially the harmed party — chooses to participate.
Restorative Justice (Howard Zehr) - Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical
Robert Neimeyer’s meaning reconstruction model holds that significant loss shatters the assumptive world — the implicit beliefs about self, others, and the future on which daily life depends — and that healthy grief requires rebuilding a coherent, meaningful life narrative that can integrate the loss. This framework is supported by observational research on grief outcomes and underpins narrative grief therapies with growing trial evidence. - Debrief and repair after the conflict is over
The conversation after the fight -- done calmly -- is where lasting repair happens.
Repair Attempts: Gottman's Key to Surviving Conflict in Relationships - Look honestly for what has grown or changed for the better
Without minimising the loss, notice any growth, change, or perspective that has emerged from it.
Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical
Related concerns
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Restorative processes only work when everyone — especially the harmed party — chooses to participate.
Ensure participation is voluntary for all parties
- Impact Statement Restorative Justice
Harm rarely affects only two people — include those affected by the ripple.
Involve the affected community, not just the two parties
- Restorative Justice Community
Harm rarely affects only two people — include those affected by the ripple.
- Restorative Justice Howard Zehr After A Setback
Restorative justice is an approach to harm that focuses on repairing relationships and meeting the needs of those harmed, rather than on punishment. Developed by Howard Zehr and others, it asks three questions: Who was harmed? What do they need? Who is responsible for meeting those needs? Research on restorative programs shows higher victim satisfaction and, in many contexts, lower reoffending compared to conventional punitive approaches — though results vary by context.
- Restorative Justice Howard Zehr At Work
Restorative justice is an approach to harm that focuses on repairing relationships and meeting the needs of those harmed, rather than on punishment. Developed by Howard Zehr and others, it asks three questions: Who was harmed? What do they need? Who is responsible for meeting those needs? Research on restorative programs shows higher victim satisfaction and, in many contexts, lower reoffending compared to conventional punitive approaches — though results vary by context.
- Restorative Justice Howard Zehr During A Big Change
Restorative justice is an approach to harm that focuses on repairing relationships and meeting the needs of those harmed, rather than on punishment. Developed by Howard Zehr and others, it asks three questions: Who was harmed? What do they need? Who is responsible for meeting those needs? Research on restorative programs shows higher victim satisfaction and, in many contexts, lower reoffending compared to conventional punitive approaches — though results vary by context.
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