Coaching practices for Strengths Based Goal Setting

Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For Strengths Based Goal Setting, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.

Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’m trying to reach this goal by white-knuckling through the exact things I’m worst at, and it’s draining and stalling
• Every time I set goals they end up being what I think I’m supposed to want
• No matter how much I improve, my goals are always pegged to beating other people
• I already know what I’m good at, but I only ever use those strengths in the same few familiar places
• I don’t believe I can actually pull this off, and the things I do that take real grit I just wave away as nothing

Practices that may help

1. Set goals that build on your signature strengths
   Design goals that let your top strengths be the primary vehicle rather than your weak spots.
   VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
2. Excavate core values before writing goals
   Identify what you most fundamentally care about before deciding what you want — or goals will be other people’s.
   The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self
3. Orient toward mastery rather than performance comparison
   Set goals against your own past standard rather than against others.
   Approach vs Avoidance Goals
4. Use a signature strength in a new way each day for one week
   Apply one of your top character strengths to a context or relationship where you don’t normally use it.
   VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
5. Complimenting Strengths Throughout the Session
   Deliberately name real strengths, efforts, and resources the person displays — not as praise but as information.
   Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Building On What Works
6. Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical
   Strengths-based leadership, developed by Tom Rath and Barry Conchie building on Gallup’s decades of manager research, holds that the most effective leaders invest in their own strengths and build teams whose combined strengths cover all four leadership domains — executing, influencing, relationship building, and strategic thinking. Gallup’s correlational research consistently finds that strength-focused teams report higher engagement and performance, though the causal direction is not fully established.
7. Adopt a mastery goal orientation, not just a performance one
   Pursue goals to get better, not just to look good — especially for long-range work.
   Goal Setting Theory, Made Practical
8. Anchor each goal to a named, personal value
   Make the goal an expression of a specific value so it stays motivating when difficulty peaks.
   Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical
9. Sidestep the SMART pitfalls
   Use SMART to clarify execution — not to shrink your ambition or freeze your goal.
   SMART Goals That Actually Move
10. Using your ranked values as a coaching north star
    Return to your ranked values list every time a goal, project, or decision feels off-track.
    Values Card Sort

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