Coaching practices for The Grow Model Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People Before Bed

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• When I replay my coaching conversations I’m talking way more than the other person
• I only ever coach in the rare formal sit-down and then default to firing off answers in every quick hallway exchange
• We have a great talk and the person leaves with "I’ll think about it," and within a day or two it’s evaporated
• My one-on-ones sprawl and end with nothing decided
• I start each coaching conversation from scratch and never circle back to what the person said they’d do last time

Practices that may help

1. The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
   The GROW model (Goal, Reality, Options, Will/Way Forward), popularized by John Whitmore’s Coaching for Performance, is the most widely used coaching conversation framework. It works by sequencing a conversation from goal clarity through honest reality assessment to option generation and commitment — resisting the coach’s instinct to jump straight to advice. Evidence is clinical rather than from controlled trials, though the underlying principles map onto well-supported psychological mechanisms.
2. Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
   Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
3. Use GROW in brief leadership conversations, not just formal coaching sessions
   Apply GROW structure to 5-minute hallway conversations and 1-on-1 check-ins — not only to hour-long coaching sessions.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
4. Secure Will — convert the best option into a specific commitment
   Close the conversation with a specific, self-declared commitment to a concrete next action.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
5. The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
   GROW (Goal, Reality, Options, Will) is a structured four-stage conversation framework that guides a person from a clear goal through an honest assessment of current reality, to a generated set of options, and finally to a committed action. It is the most widely used coaching model in executive and workplace coaching; evidence is primarily practitioner consensus and observational, not randomized controlled trials.
6. Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
   Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
7. Close the GROW loop with session review
   At the start of the next session, review what was committed and what actually happened before setting a new goal.
   The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
8. Raise awareness and build responsibility simultaneously
   Help the person see their situation more clearly while also connecting them to their ownership of it.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
9. Build a concrete Will commitment
   Convert the chosen option into a specific next action with a date, and ask "what will you do?" not "what will you try?"
   The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
10. Clarify the Goal with precision
    Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
    The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical

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