Coaching practices for Goal Setting Coaching Conversation
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- When someone I’m coaching brings me a topic, we just end up circling it and venting
- My one-on-ones sprawl and end with nothing decided
- I start each coaching conversation from scratch and never circle back to what the person said they’d do last time
- I sit down to coach someone through what happened and they’re already braced, because they know I’ve made up my mind about how they did
- The people I coach leave fired up with a plan, but the first ordinary snag throws them and the whole thing quietly dies
Practices that may help
- Clarify the Goal with precision
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Close the GROW loop with session review
At the start of the next session, review what was committed and what actually happened before setting a new goal.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Replace performance review conversations with feedforward conversations
In coaching conversations, ask "what could you do differently?" instead of "what went wrong?"
Feedforward: Future-Focused Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior - Obstacle anticipation before close
Before ending, ask "what could get in the way?" and pre-plan the response.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Build a concrete Will commitment
Convert the chosen option into a specific next action with a date, and ask "what will you do?" not "what will you try?"
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Secure Will — convert the best option into a specific commitment
Close the conversation with a specific, self-declared commitment to a concrete next action.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Use GROW in brief leadership conversations, not just formal coaching sessions
Apply GROW structure to 5-minute hallway conversations and 1-on-1 check-ins — not only to hour-long coaching sessions.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
The GROW model (Goal, Reality, Options, Will/Way Forward), popularized by John Whitmore’s Coaching for Performance, is the most widely used coaching conversation framework. It works by sequencing a conversation from goal clarity through honest reality assessment to option generation and commitment — resisting the coach’s instinct to jump straight to advice. Evidence is clinical rather than from controlled trials, though the underlying principles map onto well-supported psychological mechanisms.
Related concerns
- Coaching Goal Setting
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
Clarify the Goal with precision
- Coaching Session Goal
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
- The Grow Coaching Model Before Bed
GROW (Goal, Reality, Options, Will) is a structured four-stage conversation framework that guides a person from a clear goal through an honest assessment of current reality, to a generated set of options, and finally to a committed action. It is the most widely used coaching model in executive and workplace coaching; evidence is primarily practitioner consensus and observational, not randomized controlled trials.
- The Grow Model Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People Before Bed
The GROW model (Goal, Reality, Options, Will/Way Forward), popularized by John Whitmore’s Coaching for Performance, is the most widely used coaching conversation framework. It works by sequencing a conversation from goal clarity through honest reality assessment to option generation and commitment — resisting the coach’s instinct to jump straight to advice. Evidence is clinical rather than from controlled trials, though the underlying principles map onto well-supported psychological mechanisms.
- Coaching Closing Conversation
The closing question turns the conversation into a learning that sticks — and teaches you what is actually valuable.
Close with "What was most useful for you?"
- Coaching Conversation Future Focused
In coaching conversations, ask "what could you do differently?" instead of "what went wrong?"
Replace performance review conversations with feedforward conversations
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