Coaching practices for The Sbi Feedback Model with My Team

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  • I deliver my feedback as a finished verdict and then the other person just sits there closed off
  • I tell someone what went wrong but never say what I actually want instead, so they walk away knowing they messed up with no idea what "right" looks like
  • I tell people what they did wrong but they don’t see why it actually matters, so nothing changes
  • I blurt out corrections in the heat of the moment, often right in front of other people, and instead of taking it in they just get humiliated and dig in
  • Feedback in my one-on-ones only ever flows one way

Practices that may help

  1. The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
    The SBI model (Situation–Behavior–Impact), developed by the Center for Creative Leadership, structures feedback by anchoring it to an observable moment, describing the behavior seen rather than inferring motive, and naming the actual impact. This reduces defensiveness and attribution errors; the model is established clinical practice in leadership development, though direct RCT comparisons to other feedback approaches are limited.
  2. Invite a response after delivering SBI
    Close SBI by asking what the other person makes of it — not with a verdict.
    The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
  3. Add a forward-looking request to SBI
    Pair the impact statement with a specific, doable request for next time.
    The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
  4. Name the actual impact on you or the team
    Say what effect the behavior had — on you, on others, on the work.
    The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
  5. Choose the right moment and setting for feedback
    Feedback lands in proportion to how safe and ready the receiver feels — timing and privacy matter.
    The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
  6. Make feedback flow in both directions
    Give timely, specific feedback — and ask for it on your own management.
    Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical
  7. Use SBI for positive feedback, not just correction
    Name the situation, behavior, and impact when someone does something right.
    The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
  8. Anchor feedback to a specific situation
    Name the exact time and place before you say anything else.
    The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
  9. The Feedback Sandwich: Why It Doesn’t Work and What to Do Instead
    The feedback sandwich (positive–negative–positive) is the dominant model for giving feedback in workplaces, but research and practitioner experience suggest it routinely fails: recipients either remember only the positive parts or dismiss the negative as softened insincerity. The practices below cover why it fails mechanistically and what specific alternatives are better supported.
  10. Establish a no-argument rule in feedforward exchanges
    In structured feedforward exchanges, neither party evaluates or debates the suggestions — only listens and notes.
    Feedforward: Future-Focused Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior

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