Coaching practices for The Untethered Soul in Practice for My Teenager

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  • I get so pulled into whatever I’m thinking or feeling that I lose any sense of solid ground
  • I hold on to everything all day long
  • There’s this voice in my head that never shuts up
  • I’ve quietly built my whole life around never going near one sore subject
  • I want my child to carry a solid sense of who they are even when I’m not there to remind them

Practices that may help

  1. The Untethered Soul, In Practice
    Michael Singer’s teaching is that you are not your thoughts and emotions but the awareness that observes them — "the seat of awareness." The practical moves are noticing the inner voice, choosing to relax and release stuck emotional energy rather than suppress or indulge it, and keeping the "inner gate" open through whatever arises. These are experiential teachings; some overlap with studied mechanisms like decentering and acceptance, but Singer’s framing is not a clinically tested protocol.
  2. Resting in the seat of awareness
    Settle back into the center of consciousness that is simply aware, behind all experience.
    The Untethered Soul, In Practice
  3. Letting go as a moment-to-moment practice
    Make releasing — rather than gripping — your default response to whatever arises during the day.
    The Untethered Soul, In Practice
  4. Noticing the inner voice
    Recognize the constant mental narrator — and the fact that you are the one hearing it.
    The Untethered Soul, In Practice
  5. Not building life around your sensitivities
    Stop arranging your whole life to avoid your “inner thorns” — face them instead.
    The Untethered Soul, In Practice
  6. Build the child’s inner wealth narrative over time
    Consistently reflect back who the child is becoming, not just what they’re doing.
    The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser)
  7. Make the subject-object move
    Turn something that has you ("I am anxious") into something you have and can examine ("I notice anxiety in me").
    Self-Authorship: Moving From the Socialized to the Self-Authored Mind
  8. Working with attachments in the night of the senses
    Use the night of the senses to examine what you have been clinging to for identity and security.
    The Dark Night of the Soul: John of the Cross
  9. Keeping your inner gate open
    Choose to stay open and present rather than closing down when life pushes on your sensitivities.
    The Untethered Soul, In Practice
  10. Practice loosening identification with the ego-self
    Train the capacity to observe your thoughts, feelings, and roles without completely being them.
    The Perennial Philosophy, Made Practical

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