Coaching practices for Ultradian Rhythms Working with Your Brain S Focus Cycles After a Loss
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I try to power through a four-hour stretch of work in one go and the back half is garbage I end up redoing
- I keep my head down and stay busy so I never actually feel the loss, and now it ambushes me at random and won’t metabolize
- Deep in a work session my jaw clenches and my shoulders creep up and I read it as a signal to bear down harder
- When my attention starts drifting and I get the urge to check my phone, I treat it as me being lazy and try to white-knuckle through
- I keep trying to grind eight hours of real focus a day and feel like a failure when I can’t
Practices that may help
- Ultradian Rhythms: Working with Your Brain’s Focus Cycles
Ultradian rhythms are roughly 90-minute biological cycles that alternate between higher and lower cortical arousal throughout the day. Working with these cycles — intense focus for 90 minutes followed by a genuine 20-minute rest — is a mechanistically plausible way to sustain output, though direct productivity outcome evidence is limited. - Structure work in 90-minute cycles
Work in 90-minute focused blocks that mirror the brain’s natural alertness oscillation.
Ultradian Rhythms: Working with Your Brain’s Focus Cycles - Deliberately engage loss-oriented work
Set aside dedicated time to directly face the grief — the emotions, the absence, the meaning of the loss.
The Dual Process Model of Grief, Made Practical - Use stress signals as cycle-boundary alerts
When physical stress signals arrive in a focus session, treat them as the body marking a cycle boundary — not a cue to push harder.
Ultradian Rhythms: Working with Your Brain’s Focus Cycles - Learn to recognize your personal cycle’s dip signals
Notice the body’s mid-cycle signals — yawning, wandering attention, urge to check your phone — as data about cycle phase, not willpower failure.
Ultradian Rhythms: Working with Your Brain’s Focus Cycles - Cap deep work at 3–4 cycles per day
Plan for 3 to 4 ninety-minute deep cycles per day as a ceiling, not a floor.
Ultradian Rhythms: Working with Your Brain’s Focus Cycles - Identify your natural grieving style and adjust for it
Know whether you tend toward more loss or more restoration orientation — and compensate accordingly.
The Dual Process Model of Grief, Made Practical - Havening to soften acute grief activation
Use gentle touch and brief distraction to lower the physiological intensity of grief surges.
Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch - Identify how cultural norms shape your grief
Examine whether cultural scripts about how long and how much to grieve are shaping your experience.
The Dual Process Model of Grief, Made Practical - Regulate the oscillation consciously
If you are spending too long in one orientation, deliberately shift to the other.
The Dual Process Model of Grief, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Calming Grief Surge
Use gentle touch and brief distraction to lower the physiological intensity of grief surges.
Havening to soften acute grief activation
- Dpm Grieving Styles
Know whether you tend toward more loss or more restoration orientation — and compensate accordingly.
Identify your natural grieving style and adjust for it
- Grief Balance
Know whether you tend toward more loss or more restoration orientation — and compensate accordingly.
- Grief Meaning Oscillation
If you are spending too long in one orientation, deliberately shift to the other.
Regulate the oscillation consciously
- Grief Style Intuitive Instrumental
Know whether you tend toward more loss or more restoration orientation — and compensate accordingly.
- Grief Window Technique
Schedule bounded time to grieve, protecting both the grief process and the rest of life.
Create a deliberate grief window
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