Coaching practices for Uncovering Interests
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I feel like I should already know my one thing and lock in, but honestly I’ve barely tried anything
- At the beginner stage everything in this area feels flat and a little boring, and I’m ready to write it off
- I’ve got two or three things I’m genuinely into, and I keep feeling like having more than one means I’m scattered and unfocused
- The other person is dug in on a flat demand and I’m about to start countering it
- I need to get into something I find genuinely boring
Practices that may help
- Sample widely before committing to a niche
Premature specialization forecloses interests you haven’t discovered yet.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Prioritize skill gains that reveal more of the domain
Each layer of skill opens new parts of a domain you couldn’t see before — this is how interest deepens.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Allow multiple active interests without forcing a hierarchy
Having more than one developing interest is not a sign of lost focus — it’s how passion develops for many people.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Ask "why" before proposing any solution
Understand the interest driving a position before generating any solution — solutions invented before interests are understood usually solve the wrong problem.
Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation - Develop interest in areas where it is currently absent
Interest is not fixed — it can be cultivated through basic understanding and early success experiences.
Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t) - Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love
Paul O’Keefe and colleagues found that people who believe interests are fixed ("find your passion") tend to abandon pursuits when they get hard, while those who see interests as developed through effort stay curious and persistent. The evidence suggests "follow your passion" is not just unhelpful advice — it may actively discourage the effort that transforms shallow interest into deep, sustaining work. - Share information to unlock value
Reveal interests (not your bottom line) so both sides can find the better deal.
Win-Win Thinking: Expanding the Pie - Link developing interests to a sense of contribution
Interest that connects to helping others or solving real problems becomes more sustaining than interest that is purely self-contained.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Track what makes you ask questions, not what makes you feel good
Curiosity is a better signal for developing passion than pleasure.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Follow genuine interest, not strategic interest
Pursue the thing that genuinely excites you — even if you cannot explain why or see how it fits.
The Creative Act: Rick Rubin’s Approach to Making
Related concerns
- Follow Your Interest
Paul O’Keefe and colleagues found that people who believe interests are fixed ("find your passion") tend to abandon pursuits when they get hard, while those who see interests as developed through effort stay curious and persistent. The evidence suggests "follow your passion" is not just unhelpful advice — it may actively discourage the effort that transforms shallow interest into deep, sustaining work.
- How To Find Interests
Premature specialization forecloses interests you haven’t discovered yet.
Sample widely before committing to a niche
- Interest Development
Interest is not fixed — it can be cultivated through basic understanding and early success experiences.
Develop interest in areas where it is currently absent
- Interest Development Theory
Interest is not fixed — it can be cultivated through basic understanding and early success experiences.
- Purpose And Interest Development
Interest that connects to helping others or solving real problems becomes more sustaining than interest that is purely self-contained.
Link developing interests to a sense of contribution
- Cultivate Interest
Interest is not fixed — it can be cultivated through basic understanding and early success experiences.
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