Coaching practices for Values Clarification in a New Job

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • When I talk to people in the field they give me the polished official version, and I walk away no clearer on what the day-to-day actually feels like
  • I keep hiring for the most impressive resume and then watching them work purely transactionally, and I want to start screening for whether someone actually believes in what we’re doing
  • We all kept saying the same word
  • The role that told me who I was just ended
  • I realize I know exactly what each person on my team is working on this week but almost nothing about where they’re actually trying to get to in their life

Practices that may help

  1. Listen for what isn’t in the job description
    Focus on the texture of day-to-day work, not the official narrative.
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  2. Values Clarification, Made Practical
    Values clarification is the work of naming what matters most to you, sorting the genuine priorities from the inherited ones, and using them to guide real choices. The methods — card sorts, ranking, value-consistent action — draw heavily on values work in acceptance-and-commitment therapy (ACT), which has clinical support; living in line with your values correlates with wellbeing in observational research.
  3. Hire people who share the Why, not just the skills
    Skills can be learned; shared belief cannot — filtering for Why-alignment at hiring is the highest-leverage culture move.
    Start With Why: Leading Through Purpose
  4. Clarify the concepts you are using
    Ask for precise definitions before arguments built on contested or ambiguous terms go far.
    Socratic Questioning
  5. Anchor self-definition in values, not roles
    Define yourself by what you stand for rather than by the roles you play — roles change; values endure.
    Self-Concept Clarity, Made Practical
  6. Learn what each person actually wants from their career and life
    Care personally means knowing the goal behind the job — not just what they’re working on, but why.
    Caring Personally: The Foundation of Radical Candor
  7. Forming: provide clarity before connection
    In the first stage, a new team needs structure and purpose more than it needs team-building.
    Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
  8. Using values questions to deepen a conversation
    Ask "what matters most to you about this?" to surface values rather than surface preferences.
    Values Card Sort
  9. Values clarification
    Name the directions you want your life to move in, distinct from goals you can check off.
    Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Made Practical
  10. Ask: “Would I choose this today if I were starting fresh?”
    Evaluate your current situation as if you were encountering it for the first time, without sunk costs.
    Status Quo Bias — Why We Stick with the Default

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