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  • We did the exercise where we imagined it failing and listed why, but I have a nagging sense the most likely way this actually goes wrong is something nobody was willing to say out loud in the room
  • When I ask myself "what could go wrong with this plan," I either draw a blank or come up with one vague worry
  • We’re about to kick this off and everyone’s upbeat, but I have a quiet feeling there are ways this falls apart that nobody wants to say out loud while we’re all still excited.
  • Whenever my team sits down to spot risks, the most senior or loudest person says the first thing and suddenly everyone’s nodding along to the same two concerns
  • After spending an hour imagining all the ways this could fail, I’ve talked myself right out of even starting

Practices that may help

  1. Combine the pre-mortem with red team pressure
    Run a pre-mortem and then ask the red team to find the failure mode the team missed.
    Red Teaming: Stress-Testing Plans Before They Fail
  2. Run the basic pre-mortem
    Assume the plan failed, then have everyone write down why.
    The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed
  3. Run a pre-mortem before you start
    Before a project begins, ask: assume it failed — what went wrong?
    Hindsight Bias: Why Everything Seems Obvious in Retrospect
  4. Write reasons independently before discussing
    Everyone records failure causes alone first, so the room doesn’t converge too soon.
    The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed
  5. Pair the pre-mortem with a clear success vision
    Balance failure analysis with an equally concrete picture of what success requires.
    The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed
  6. Reverse brainstorm: solve the opposite problem first
    Ask "How would we guarantee the worst possible outcome?" — then invert every answer.
    Lateral Thinking, Made Practical
  7. Run a pre-mortem before committing to a plan
    Imagine the plan has already failed and ask what went wrong.
    Confirmation Bias: Seeing What You Expect to See
  8. Run a pre-mortem from the outside-view perspective
    Imagine the project has failed — then ask which base-rate failure type caused it.
    The Outside View
  9. Run a premortem before committing
    Imagine the project has already failed and work backwards to find why.
    The Planning Fallacy — Why Your Estimates Are Always Wrong
  10. Use reverse brainstorming to find failure modes
    Ask "how would we make this fail?" instead of "how do we make this succeed?"
    Red Teaming: Stress-Testing Plans Before They Fail

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