Coaching practices for Will My Dogs Separation Anxiety Go Away

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  • I keep asking the people around me "are you sure it’s fine?" over and over
  • I’ve got all these little rules that keep me okay
  • I do make myself enter the scary situation, but the moment the fear hits its peak I cave and get out
  • I’ve had a couple of rough sessions in a row and I’m starting to believe none of this is working
  • Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room

Practices that may help

  1. Fade reassurance-seeking
    Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  2. Drop the safety behaviors
    Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  3. Prolonged exposure: stay until distress drops
    Enter the feared situation and stay until anxiety peaks and then noticeably decreases on its own.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
  4. Track SUDs across sessions to see your own progress
    Record distress ratings before and after each session so progress is visible and motivating.
    Counter-Conditioning and Systematic Desensitization
  5. Engage with the present moment
    Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  6. Regulate the anxious protest response
    For anxious activation, soothe the alarm before acting on the urge to pursue or test.
    Attachment Theory, Made Usable
  7. Eliminate safety behaviors
    Identify and drop the subtle actions that reduce anxiety but prevent learning you don’t need them.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
  8. Fade reliance on a support person
    Gradually enter feared situations with decreasing support from a person who has been a source of safety.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  9. Improve CO2 tolerance to reduce anxiety sensitivity
    The 7-count hold in 4-7-8 builds CO2 tolerance — a key factor in anxiety reactivity and panic thresholds.
    4-7-8 Breathing, Made Practical
  10. Maintain the skill with regular abbreviated practice
    Keep the relaxation response accessible with five minutes of daily cue-word practice after the initial training.
    Applied Relaxation, Made Practical

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