Identify compatible interests for joint gain
When both sides care about the same thing — quality, reputation, timing — agreements that serve that shared interest outperform splits.
Why it works
Integrative negotiation generates three types of joint gain: compatibility (both sides want the same thing), trade (each cares more about a different issue), and bridging (a new option satisfies both). Compatible interests are the easiest: "We both want this project to finish on time" is a foundation for a solution that neither side needs to sacrifice for.
How to do it
- Explicitly look for interests that appear on both sides’ lists.
- State shared interests out loud: "It sounds like we both need this resolved before the quarter closes."
- Build joint gain solutions from shared interests first — they are the easiest to agree on and build momentum.
Evidence
Identifying and exploiting compatible interests is a key integrative strategy supported by negotiation research. Shared interests reduce zero-sum framing and build cooperative momentum. Thompson and Hrebec (1996) document the cost of missing them: across studies, negotiators frequently settle for "lose-lose" agreements worse for both sides because they never recognized an interest they in fact shared. (observational)
Compatible interests can be over-exploited if one side uses shared-interest framing to position their preferred solution as the only way to serve the shared interest — which is a positional move in interest clothing.
Sources
- Pruitt (1981), Negotiation Behavior, on compatibility and integrative bargaining
- Thompson, L., & Hrebec, D. (1996). Lose-lose agreements in interdependent decision making. Psychological Bulletin, 120(3), 396-409.
Common mistake
Treating compatible interests as assumed rather than stated — leaving shared interests implicit means they don’t function as the foundation they could be.
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More practices for Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation
- Ask "why" before proposing any solution
Understand the interest driving a position before generating any solution — solutions invented before interests are understood usually solve the wrong problem.
- Disclose your own interests explicitly — not just your positions
Stating what you actually need — not just what you’re asking for — opens the door to creative solutions you couldn’t have imagined asking for.
- Map interests for both sides before generating solutions
Write down both parties’ known and inferred interests before proposing anything — the map reveals trades that no single position could.
- Trade across issues where each side has different priorities
Give the counterpart what they care most about; get what you care most about — logrolling is only possible when interests differ.
- Distinguish substantive, procedural, and psychological interests
The interest behind a position is often not about the money or the terms — it may be about face, fairness, or control.
Related concepts
- Principled Negotiation, Made Practical
The four-element framework for reaching agreements that hold
- BATNA: Your Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement
Walk-away power, realistic alternatives, and why your BATNA is your negotiating power
- ZOPA: The Zone of Possible Agreement
Mapping the deal space, identifying overlap, and knowing when no deal is the right outcome
- Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Made Practical
The four components, the mechanisms behind them, and an honest read on the evidence