Don’t make gods into demons
Don’t let spiritual practice become a source of pride, judgment, or superiority over others.
Why it works
Lojong warns against what Chögyam Trungpa called "spiritual materialism" — using a practice meant to dissolve ego as a new trophy for ego. When practice becomes a source of identity, comparison, or judgment ("I’m more mindful than others"), the compassion mechanism is hijacked. The slogan is a circuit-breaker: does your practice open you toward others or close you in superiority?
How to do it
- Periodically check: does your practice make you more patient and kind with others, or more impatient and critical?
- Notice when you use spiritual language to judge others or inflate your own status.
- If the practice is making you harsher, not gentler, that’s feedback, not a reason to practice harder.
- Talk to a teacher or trusted person about whether your practice is opening or closing.
Evidence
This is a traditional Lojong check rather than a studied practice. Psychological research on "spiritual bypass" (using spiritual practice to avoid difficult emotions or relationships) is consistent with the concern the slogan addresses. (anecdotal)
Spiritual bypassing research is limited and largely clinical; the slogan is a traditional wisdom teaching evaluated through practitioner consensus.
Common mistake
Thinking this slogan applies to other practitioners but not to you — it applies precisely to the moments of certainty that it doesn’t.
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More practices for Lojong: Tibetan Mind Training
- Tonglen: sending and taking
Breathe in suffering (yours and others’); breathe out relief and well-being.
- Train with the two truths throughout all activities
Hold both relative reality (things matter) and ultimate reality (things are empty of fixed essence) simultaneously.
- Drive all blames into one
When conflict arises, examine how self-grasping is the root, rather than blaming the other person.
- Practise with the unexpected
When things go wrong unexpectedly, use that moment as the actual practice rather than a break from it.
- Train in the three difficulties
Notice the habitual pattern, decide to interrupt it, and then work on making the interruption automatic.
- Always abide by the three principles
Maintain your vow, don’t show off, and practise impartially with everyone — not just the people you like.