Distress Tolerance: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices

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Practices that may help

  1. Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
    Distress tolerance skills, primarily from DBT, are short-term tools for surviving a crisis — intense emotional pain, overwhelming urges, or acute situational stress — without making things worse. They don’t solve the problem; they get you through the peak so problem-solving becomes possible again. DBT as a whole has strong randomized-trial support, particularly for borderline personality disorder and emotion dysregulation.
  2. Self-soothe through the five senses
    Deliberately comfort yourself through sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch while the crisis peaks.
    Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
  3. IMPROVE the moment
    Use Imagery, Meaning, Prayer, Relaxation, One thing, Vacation, and Encouragement to get through right now.
    Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
  4. Build tolerance for task-related discomfort
    Practice staying with a mildly uncomfortable task longer than feels natural — discomfort tolerance is trainable.
    Procrastination as Emotion Regulation
  5. TIPP — change your body chemistry fast
    Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Progressive muscle relaxation to drop overwhelm from the body up.
    Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
  6. Sittings of strong determination — commitment to stillness
    Commit to not moving, opening the eyes, or adjusting for a fixed period, developing steadiness under discomfort.
    Vipassana Meditation, Made Practical
  7. Use repeated pendulation to widen the window of tolerance
    Over weeks of practice, pendulation expands the range of activation you can tolerate without tipping into flooding or shutdown.
    Pendulation, Made Practical
  8. Radical acceptance in a crisis
    Fully acknowledge that this is happening right now — stopping the war with reality to free energy for getting through.
    Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
  9. Self-soothe with the five senses
    Deliberately comfort yourself through sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch to ride out distress.
    Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills, Made Practical
  10. TIPP for crisis distress tolerance
    Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Paired muscle relaxation to drop overwhelming arousal fast.
    Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills, Made Practical

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