Coaching practices for Ego at Work

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• Every task I start with "what do I get out of this," and when it goes sideways my ego takes it personally
• The moment someone challenges my call I feel myself bristle and start building a case for why I’m right, and I’ve noticed people have basically stopped bringing me bad news
• While I’m working I keep checking how it’s going and whether it’ll be good enough, and that constant monitoring pulls me out of actually doing it
• Left alone I’ll dodge this for hours, but the moment someone else is just sitting there working nearby I somehow drop in and get going
• I could list ten things that went wrong at work today without blinking but I’d struggle to name one that went right

Practices that may help

1. Shift from personal achievement to service orientation
   Ask not "what will I get from this?" but "who does this serve?"
   Karma Yoga: The Yoga of Selfless Action
2. Check the ego
   Ego clouds judgment, blocks feedback, and turns disagreements into contests.
   Extreme Ownership, Made Practical
3. Bring the karma-yoga worker’s steadiness to professional roles
   The karma yoga practitioner is fully engaged and fully unattached — doing the work at the highest level, releasing the result.
   Karma Yoga: The Yoga of Selfless Action
4. Use a body double for low-initiation tasks
   Work in the physical or virtual presence of another person to borrow their initiation momentum.
   Task Initiation: Overcoming the Start Problem
5. Getting Things Done (GTD), Made Practical
   David Allen’s GTD runs every commitment through five steps — capture, clarify, organize, reflect, and engage — so nothing lives in your head and you always know the next physical action. The core insight, that unfinished tasks held in memory create persistent mental load, is supported by cognitive research; GTD itself is a coherent practitioner system rather than a single tested protocol.
6. Apply three good things to work contexts specifically
   Use the exercise to rewire what you notice about your work day — contribution, competence, and collaboration.
   Three Good Things: The Evidence-Based Gratitude Practice
7. Drain the shallows
   Aggressively limit and batch low-value shallow work so it doesn’t crowd out deep work.
   Deep Work, Made Practical
8. Use a 15-minute end-of-day planning buffer to close the day’s loops
   Before leaving work, take 15 minutes to list tomorrow’s priorities and explicitly close today’s open loops.
   The Zeigarnik Effect: How Unfinished Tasks Occupy Your Mind
9. Deep time humility
   Situate yourself in deep geological and historical time to shrink ego-urgency and expand perspective.
   The Good Ancestor: Long-Path Thinking for a Meaningful Life
10. Align daily work with meaningful goals
    Ground your MITs and projects in goals that genuinely matter to you, not just what is urgent.
    Zen To Done (ZTD), Made Practical

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