Coaching practices for How Can I Become a Better Leader at Work
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- I keep delivering work I’m proud of and it somehow lands flat with my boss, and I’m realizing I have no real idea what they’re actually being judged on or pressured about
- I keep forcing myself to lead the way I think a leader is supposed to, even when it cuts against my grain, and I can’t actually name what I’m naturally good at
- When I want something to happen I reach for “because I’m the boss” far too quickly, and I get compliance that falls apart the second I leave the room
- I’m at my best when I’m getting a room aligned and fired up
- I stand up and tell my team what we value, but I’ve started to wonder whether my own choices actually match the words
Practices that may help
- Map your manager’s top three priorities
Know what your manager is measured on and being pressured about — your work lands differently when it connects to that.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Identify your dominant leadership strengths — and lead from them
Know which of the four leadership domains you naturally operate from and amplify it rather than trying to be equally strong in all four.
Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical - Influence through persuasion, not positional power
Build consensus and convince rather than command — authority is the last resort, not the first.
Servant Leadership, Made Practical - Lead from the influencing domain — take charge, speak up, make sure others are heard
People strong in influencing sell the team’s ideas inside and outside the organization.
Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical - Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
Managing up means proactively understanding your manager’s priorities, communication style, and constraints — then adapting how you work and communicate to make the partnership effective. Done well it is collaborative rather than manipulative: it reduces friction, builds trust, and creates space for greater autonomy. The evidence base is primarily organizational behavior research on leader-member exchange and practitioner consensus. - Model the values you expect (idealized influence)
Become a living example of the values you want your team to hold.
Transformational Leadership, Made Practical - Deliberately expand your inner circle
Move team members from low-LMX to high-LMX through intentional relationship investment.
Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical - There are no bad teams, only bad leaders
The same people perform differently under different leadership — so start with the leadership.
Extreme Ownership, Made Practical - Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Distribute leadership rather than centralizing it
Develop leadership capacity throughout the team, not just in the designated leader.
Transformational Leadership, Made Practical
Related concerns
- How Do You Become A Better Leader In Your Company
Care more about the organization’s success than your personal legacy.
Channel ambition to the institution, not yourself
- Influencing Leadership
People strong in influencing sell the team’s ideas inside and outside the organization.
Lead from the influencing domain — take charge, speak up, make sure others are heard
- How Can I Become A Good Leader
Influence others more through example, listening, and restraint than through assertion and command.
Leading from behind — the servant leader stance
- How Do I Become A Good Leader What Are Some Tips From Experts In The Field
Know which of the four leadership domains you naturally operate from and amplify it rather than trying to be equally strong in all four.
Identify your dominant leadership strengths — and lead from them
- Authentic Leadership
Become a living example of the values you want your team to hold.
Model the values you expect (idealized influence)
- Authority Levels Leadership
Delegation levels frameworks (most commonly a 5- or 7-level scale) give managers and their reports a shared vocabulary for how much authority is being handed over on any task — from "wait for my instructions" to "decide and act without telling me." The model is practitioner wisdom rather than formally studied, but the underlying principle — that ambiguity about authority is the root of both micromanagement and abdication — has solid organizational support.
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