Coaching practices for How Do I Know If I Need Life Coaching or Psychotherapy
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- Someone comes to me with "it’s a disaster, he doesn’t respect me," and I just take their version at face value and start fixing
- I keep treating this like a feeling to manage
- I think I’m asking questions, but they’re really suggestions in disguise
- My one-on-ones sprawl and end with nothing decided
- Someone comes to me upset and I dive straight into fixing it with advice, and only afterward do I realize they just wanted to be heard
Practices that may help
- Explore Reality — establish an honest assessment of the current situation
Help the person see their current situation clearly and specifically, without judgment or premature solutions.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Identify noogenic (meaning-layer) problems, not just psychological ones
Ask whether your current suffering is about a psychological difficulty or a deeper question about meaning — because they require different responses.
Logotherapy: Dereflection - Powerful open questions at every stage
Ask questions that invite thinking, not ones that suggest answers — and ask more than you tell.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Ask "How can I help?" instead of assuming
Telling people how you’ll help before finding out what kind of help they want is one of the most common management errors.
The Coaching Habit: Seven Questions to Be More Coach-Like - Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Ask the workability question
Ask "is what I am doing working?" — not "is it right?" but whether it is moving you toward the life you want.
Emotional Agility, Made Practical - Obstacle anticipation before close
Before ending, ask "what could get in the way?" and pre-plan the response.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Clarify the Goal with precision
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Ask "What do you want?"
People often know what they want but haven’t said it — asking directly surfaces it and shifts from complaint to intention.
The Coaching Habit: Seven Questions to Be More Coach-Like
Related concerns
- How To Know If You Need Therapy Versus Coaching
Ask questions that invite thinking, not ones that suggest answers — and ask more than you tell.
Powerful open questions at every stage
- What Do You Want Coaching
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
Clarify the Goal with precision
- Coaching Closing Conversation
The closing question turns the conversation into a learning that sticks — and teaches you what is actually valuable.
Close with "What was most useful for you?"
- Coaching Conversation Future Focused
In coaching conversations, ask "what could you do differently?" instead of "what went wrong?"
Replace performance review conversations with feedforward conversations
- Coaching Not Telling
Ask questions that invite thinking, not ones that suggest answers — and ask more than you tell.
- Coaching Question Intention
Ask questions that invite thinking, not ones that suggest answers — and ask more than you tell.
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